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simsibimsi9
1 year ago

Jein. You should find enough room for children to find your own interests. If that’s a boy’s doll, that’s okay.

But what I wouldn’t do is that my children can choose the pronouns themselves. If it’s a boy, I’d talk to him too and not leave the choice. But not because I have something against people who are trans, but because children often simply do what parents tell them, but ultimately do not know what really is behind them. If I would say, “Look out for a pronoun,” then the child can also be overwhelmed quickly if I think that children sometimes don’t even pick up their daily clothes because they can’t decide.

If the child comes to the fact that he would rather be called her, then okay. But will not simply integrate it without reason.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago
Reply to  simsibimsi9

Yes, I see it exactly the same!

moonjosart
1 year ago

Before: I answer the question on a theoretical basis, because I do not want children. Neither biological nor adopted.

If I had children, I would tend to have a gender-neutral education. It would have helped me a lot, as a child, because I’ve been told that certain things are “only for girls” or “only for boys” and that’s bullshit. If I had kids, I’d like to tell them. It doesn’t matter what color the clothes have or whether a fairy or a car is printed on it. Besides, it doesn’t matter if you play with cars, dolls or cards. They are just toys and they should be there for everyone and not just for a specific sex.

In addition, my child would know from the beginning that it would have a safe space with me and I would never condemn or even hate it for his sexuality/identity.

WitchesAndCats
1 year ago

I’m not going to get kids, but if we understand “gender-neutral” that girls aren’t necessarily put in pink dresses and boys are allowed to have other interests than cars & Dinos, that’s a good thing.

Children are primarily children. They should be able to develop their own interests freely and discover the world without anyone telling them what is the right color for their clothes or what boys can play and what toys are for girls.

Trullalla56
1 year ago
Reply to  WitchesAndCats

You speak to me from the heart

Mogli333
1 year ago
Reply to  WitchesAndCats

But the world does not break down over the heads of the children when a girl is dressed in pink and a boy in light blue. If you – and many others – have no other worries…

WitchesAndCats
1 year ago
Reply to  Mogli333

I never said that, so please do not argue against things that are not included in my answer. And if the favorite color is pink from a girl, that’s not wrong either.

I am mainly concerned with certain things that unfortunately still hang in many heads and limit children. For example, if a boy wants to go to ballet and it can’t be because it’s “only for girls”. Or girls should wear dresses/must, because that looks so sweet and feminine – as I said, mainly there are children. They do not have to reflect a certain “female” or “male” image. We are still well ahead of sexual maturity. For themselves, they and other children are mainly small people.

LilaInPink
1 year ago

I don’t want to say some things would be “for boys” or “for girls”. If she likes certain things, that’s okay for me. I don’t care if it’s stereotype or not.

It should also be remembered, however, that many children in primary school age naturally turn away from the other sex and then rather like stereotype things to be just not “like those”.

Belliwell
1 year ago

I’d raise my child openly. I would like my child to have his own experience at a given time. And then I would listen to the child and be there for it. I’m not responsible for my child’s sexuality. I’m just bringing it to the world. His orientation must find it himself. I’m just the observer.

Gender neutral is not possible, rather open to various lifestyles and attitudes.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago

I make my son a man and daughter must look at mother. So no lol

Nill
1 year ago

You can be a man in a pink rock

draxor
1 year ago
Reply to  Nill

I don’t think so.

Of course, a child should be allowed to do what you want.

But if one shows abnormal behavior or deliberately embarrasses oneself in the public, it stops.

As a child you usually think differently than when you’re older. Most of the time, you’re just talking about what your own parents say.

As a child, I had a few habits, which are typical “girls” and in retrospect, I think it would be better if I had been told that this is not typical of boys, that these things leave some of them embarrassing moments.

princesskenny
1 year ago

It doesn’t matter what color your child wears or what toy it plays.

AlexB86
1 year ago

No, I wouldn’t. The child must find himself. If it finds out later that it feels drawn to the same sex or whatever then I will naturally support it.

princesskenny
1 year ago

Depending on what is meant by gender neutral. I would never say to my child “This is only for boys/this is only for girls”. I’m going to educate it like her sex, so girls as a girl and a boy.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago
Reply to  princesskenny

Yes

princesskenny
1 year ago

I also find terrible when you say to a boy, “You don’t cry.”

ichhihiihih
1 year ago

Definitely not. There are men and women. Point.

princesskenny
1 year ago
Reply to  ichhihiihih

However, it doesn’t matter what color your child wears or what toys it plays.

ichhihiihih
1 year ago
Reply to  princesskenny

of course

Caius18
11 months ago
Reply to  ichhihiihih

No. According to science, gender is now a spectrum (incidentally also evolutionary sense). This is about education, but one can already think about one or the other.

EviausEsens
1 year ago

No, never. We have other problems in Germany

IQMatzko
1 year ago

in any case

ScorpioGxdKayla
1 year ago

No.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago

Why? I read this is good for development of children

Hipponax
1 year ago

Hit was also good for the development of children. :
I educate my child as I think it is right. I’m sure you can talk about not discriminating others because of their being. That should have been the case.

juanthomr194
1 year ago

Paper is patient. Propaganda is omnipresent.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago

Yeah, that’s true. I didn’t have a proper opinion, but I’ve been suggesting that it’s good.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago

? Sorry I don’t understand what you mean

Vennesla
1 year ago

No, I raised my daughter as a woman and my son as a man.

My daughter liked to play with cars and Lego, just like my son and the two have built the most amazing things from Lego.

I never asked my daughter to play with dolls and if my son would like to play with dolls, I would have left him.

If one of my children would have decided to be a different sex, gender-neutral, lesbian or gay, then I would have accepted that and supported my child in his wish.

Mugua
1 year ago

That depends on what you mean.

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago
Reply to  Mugua

So I meant that: https://myplaybox.de/blog/ gender neutral education/

AstridDerPu
1 year ago

Hello,

I’m out of age (60+).

AstridThePu

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago
Reply to  AstridDerPu

Hope you have a nice pension 😊🙏

AstridDerPu
1 year ago

I’m not retired yet.

Nill
1 year ago

Depends on the definition.

So with autos and puppy games, blue and pink carry, football and balett make would be full ok.

It asks which pronouns prefer it and so not

verreisterNutzer
1 year ago
Reply to  Nill

Yes, I think

Kbeacker
1 year ago

No, because I’m sure I wouldn’t tell my kid that shit. There’s a man and a woman at the end of history. I am not involved in the intellectual suicide of this species.

princesskenny
1 year ago
Reply to  Kbeacker

It doesn’t matter what color your child wears or what toy it plays.

Kbeacker
1 year ago
Reply to  princesskenny

Of course it doesn’t matter. I’m just educating it off this ideology.

Kbeacker
1 year ago

I don’t care what my hypothetical child plays. I have nothing against transsexual, gay or lesbians, I have nothing to do with children being involved in this ideology.

princesskenny
1 year ago

I also educate my daughter like a girl, yet I would never say “This is only for boys/This is only for girls”. I also think something like that is meant to be gender neutral and not that one does not raise his daughter as a girl or as a boy. Because even I find it wrong and I have absolutely nothing against transgenders or anything else.

ChiaraDenis
1 year ago

There are only two sexes and the two the children’s witnesses can be anything else in my eyes Bullshit we get a child and it can only be young or girls so we will raise them or treat him as our son or our daughter

Nill
1 year ago
Reply to  ChiaraDenis

It can also be inter

Mogli333
1 year ago
Reply to  Nill

Yes and 10 other identities can also become if the parents themselves have no clear sexual compass.

princesskenny
1 year ago
Reply to  ChiaraDenis

However, it doesn’t matter what color your child wears or what toys it plays.

Caius18
11 months ago
Reply to  ChiaraDenis

According to science, gender is a spectrum. This is about education that can be designed in this case as you want. Fortunately, there are no legal requirements in this area.

Nill
1 year ago

But as su say incermans should fit into the schiema

Mogli333
1 year ago

Your egg cutting answer has nothing to do with my comment.

Nill
1 year ago

Why are they supposed to subordinate themselves?

Would you have been happy your elders after the birth decided to cut off your eggs so that your birth certificate is female?

Mogli333
1 year ago

I’d like to admit that I’m not the expert on the subject. But I colossally disturb the Tamtam that the majority of our society should adapt to a vanishing small minority which is not clear whether it is male or female or wants to be.

I feel with the people who are not biologically unambiguous, but is it too much of them to decide for one or the other on a gender issue? Instead, the vast majority will continue to be harassed by the question of a third sex.

If, for example, a job alert for a taxi driver is asked for female or male, then it might be interesting for an employer because he can let women drive less at night. But no person cares if the taxi driver aspirant is inter.

And if someone is inter or divers, or if God still knows what a fool is, it doesn’t hurt anyone.

Nill
1 year ago

Inter is what biological

Zb a person who has boobs and hodens from nature

She urache is ne genmutation

These people are neither clear male nor clear female