Write a funeral in a book?

Hey, I'm Sarina and I'm 15 years old. We're doing a final project at school, and I'm writing my own book. It's about her losing her parents and going to her funeral. But I have no idea how to write this funeral story. Do you have any ideas?

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Aszhrael
2 years ago

Everyone feels a funeral differently. My experience:

When my grandma died, I was endlessly sad. That was the most terrible day of my life. At the funeral itself… I was so empty. So, of course, I was still sad, but everything was so dull and seemed rather unreal.

My little brother laughed and sweated shortly before. He was very upset. Only when we were inside – I kept myself close to him all the time – he was suddenly quite quiet. I was confused. I didn’t touch him or touch him while he stared at the urn. I knew he had to realize it properly and place it right in his thoughts. It was very painful to see my brother like that. That was the only thing next to the dullness in my head that I felt. Only when the music started I pulled him and embraced him.

The day of death was the worst day of my life.

But the days after. These expectations and habits to see and hear someone who is not there.

The silence. That’s the worst.

Edit: I think I’ve written it like a story. Probably because I became nostalgic ^^^

But hope this will help you with the other answers.

Aszhrael
2 years ago
Reply to  SarinaHa07

I wouldn’t have written it.

And it helped me again 😄

tinalisatina
2 years ago

Uih, this is creepy hard. It would be best if you (as long as the time is enough) just go to a funeral. You can find the appointments in your municipality in the official pages. You can also be there as an “unparticipant” that holds in the background. You get something from the mood that prevails.

Otherwise it is different for everyone.

First of all, there is the pain that, of course, depends on how the parents died.

Then the faint that you couldn’t do anything.

Then the paper war comes. Here it comes to who she (I suppose “she” is minor) accompanies her. It’s a lot to do with things you don’t know. And that at a time when you really don’t have a nerve.

Finally the funeral. Here, as the next member, one is at the centre of a “ceremony” that you did not want to have. And that one would certainly do differently for oneself. You meet people you don’t know or you don’t like. You get sympathy that you can’t start with. It is pressed in a role that does not meet our own grief.

You’ll find something more to do here. Good luck with your book.

https://www.bestattungsvergleich.de/ratgeber/bestattung/bestattungslauf/

Tarniabur
2 years ago

Good morning, you can write it like this: on 25.01. my parents are buried and will accompany their last path. So I can best process farewell, love greeting