How come?
Hello dear ones🫶🏻,
I'm 19 years old and my father regularly checks my rooms, even though I tell him it makes me uncomfortable. He also always says he'll lock my bathroom if it doesn't look the way he wants it to. I've tried to talk about it, but all I get is more threats. I don't have the best relationship with my father, but I think he invades my privacy too much, especially in the bathroom. But like I said, whenever I bring it up, it escalates into vicious insults and threats. What's the best way to address the issue so he'll understand?
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Talk to your mother best. because this is not normal my opinion, are already mature enough already in 19. If you’re a woman, you don’t want your father to stop you naked. So best talk to Mother if you can’t say anything from you so can also discuss bite with your father. If it doesn’t fit Dan needs to move. I think so.
My mother doesn’t see a problem.
Yes you already see the problem, talk to your father, but if it escalates can call police or just go out!
I’ll talk to him again. I don’t think police are necessary. I also think it would be better if I had an apartment and a little distance. Nevertheless, thanks for the advice
You should ask him why he acts like that! Let’s explain it to you, then you can talk differently that he shouldn’t worry or do that!
And yes, you’re 19. Don’t let it go
I did. However, there are rather unsightly words.
I’m sorry, and outside help? Family therapy?
My father wouldn’t do it. I was recommended a psychotherapist, but there are no appointments at the moment.
I don’t want to involve other family members and the others can’t do anything.
I’m used to the situation and I know how to deal with this, but that with the rooms is a limit for me.
Talk to your mother. Maybe she can do something. Don’t let that happen if you don’t like it.
You can look for your own apartment you are now grown up
I’d like to. However, I am in an education and cannot afford an apartment or WG