Wie würdet ihr damit umgehen?
Hello
Undzwar kriege ich viel hate dafür, dass ich ein Tag vor dem Tot meines Pferdes ihn noch geritten bin.
Auch wenn ich erkläre dass sein tot nicht absehbar war, da es ein Paddockunfall war haten sie weiter…
Wie würdet ihr damit umgehen?
It simply belongs to the fact that many people can no longer be of different opinion and that Hate is spoken on both sides.
Just in the online area.
Anyone who is dealing with living beings will also be responsible for the death of one. Early or later!
Every year dozens of jumping horses die and sometimes even jumpers on tournaments. Because the horse represents itself, the team utters the scale and the fall ends badly.
Similarly similar accidents occur in the dressage square, in the terrain, in road traffic, in the hall otherwise where.
It is important to simply accept that there are people who are of other opinion that they may have.
There are also plenty of people who think horse riding just like that or so as to be animal-feeling. Their opinion is as important as yours, which you are not guilty of the death of the horse.
However, you should cleanly and honestly prepare every accident so that you can draw conclusions to avoid similar accidents. Even if one often finds at the end, one could have done a lot better!
Oh, my God, they’re putting the hunting vehicles on fire, picking up the tires, hitting discs.
At our transporters for horses and cattle, there is also one or other nice saying.
We’ll show that, but I wouldn’t talk about Hate. People have their reasons. That’s good too. Only people should not understand themselves in the choice of means.
Our butcher master has also been smashed and thrown in a few times! Hey there you help clean up, give a few euros in the damage elimination and is good.
Whether the horse has been ridden the day before or not has nothing to do with an accident that happens during the day. If there is no prehistory, e.g. the horse was too old/hospitable, bad condition, overwhelmed,… just missing the connection. Therefore, I cannot fully understand how this “have” should look or look. what does it refer to?
Anyway, I’m sorry for you that your horse died, stay away from the people who seem to construct something weird. You know what really happened, so let the others think and talk what they want.
Yeah, that’s bad how this “newness” goes.
I’m sorry for you.
Basically, I would advise not to tell so much about my own life, not even online.
But there are so many ugly people, so is the world.
You can only say confidently and calmly that you have no fault and that these attacks are bad.
Ignore. Tough silence is a good weapon. Pokerface 😶. No discussions, no statements, no justifications. Just pity the mob for its inconceivable stupidity.
And learn for life that real friends are a rarity. You always have to be very careful who you trust. And, if necessary, even trusted persons point out when you tell them something secret. Because sometimes one is not aware of how sensitive one or other information is. Possibly, the “friend” deliberately kicked off the gossip press – but perhaps it only, without thinking about it, told anyone casually about your story and did not know what it is doing with it.
If she saw her mistake and asked you for forgiveness, you prove character when you give her the hand.
Addendum: “Thank you to someone who says nothing,” was the winged word of a friend of mine. When you control the art, just shut up when you are attacked, but without looking down three, it will quickly get boring to the others 😄
Then you’ll give it a counter with facts.
If it wasn’t foreseeable and everything was normal when riding, then anyone should know? It was an accident. It’s so sad, but something happens. You have limited control over things that happen.
It’s completely out of the context of making accusations now. But just online, all the more wanted experts always have the idea. They haven’t even been there, but they’re talking like they were.
Death plays according to his own rules. I also phoned my grandpa and everything was great. The next day he was dead. So? Should I have smelled it through the phone? I couldn’t have done anything else because it was unpredictable.
Ignoring how did our horse rode two hours before the colic, we were about half an hour home when the stable owner called that ee Koliken would, the hanger was also prepared for the clinic, but he could not go out louder, so we had to let him go.
He was the dream horse
My first was 20 and the dream, Black Beauty in Wallach, Oldenburger, Rappe 185
you tell strange people you don’t even know, just don’t live.
this can be avoided.
remove content, stop comment function, finished.
and then think before you post something.
if you’re not full-year.
He’s okay… I’ve been thinking that I was just talking to a person about it, and this one told half the online world and did my number?
Oh, and what I can say. Most of them are in real life. There, too, I talked to a so-called girlfriend about it, she’s been counting it. (Bin since that went apart with her)
Oh, yeah. I know for a while now.
then you have to choose your friends in real life just more carefully.
You have two ears. And they’re used. In one ear, out the other ear.
Accidents happen. Or you can’t drive with a car if you can’t see it in the future and you might be able to drive it into a grave the next day?
These people are so bad because they don’t know better. You have no idea how it’s going to happen.
Sadness = weakness = possibility of attack
I’d be covered and kept as far away as possible from such people.
Let people talk. It was an accident, you can’t do anything. It is best to contact these people, they do not do you well
It’s just unbelievably stupid. If the horse wasn’t sick, how should you predict that it would die a day later?
The problem: the stupidity of other people can’t be changed. In your case, you might ask her how to make sure that her horse doesn’t fall on her head the day after riding or hit a comet?