Man lernt sich in der Schule kennen, kommt zusammen usw. und stirbt verheiratet in einer glücklich verlaufenen Ehe mit Kindern usw.?
Ist das wahrscheinlich? Wie häufig kommt das vor? Habt ihr eigene Erfahrungen oder welche durch Bekannte?
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Hallo, gestern Mittag (24.06. 13:45)wurde mir übel und sehr heiß. Ich hatte das Gefühl mich übergeben zu müssen. Als ich saß wurde es besser. Dann ging es wieder aber ab 17:30 bekam ich dicke Kopfschmerzen. Als ich dann heim kam von der Arbeit gegen 21 Uhr fingen unterleib schmerzen an. Ich dachte wegen Stuhlgang aber…
Es sollte nichts sein was jetzt direkt darauf hinweist das ich auf ihn stehe. Einen Ring und eine Kette habe ich ihm zum Geburtstag geschenkt. Ich will auch nicht das es so wirklich nach Weinachten aussieht sondern einfach etwas kleines von mir. Habt ihr Vorschläge?
This is often a Disney expectation planted in us. This does not mean that it is impossible, but reality shows that it is extremely rare. In order to make this truly possible, it needs a new consciousness. One that dissolves from illusions and truly understands the depth of human relations.
Many partnerships fail because they are based on convenience or mutual dependence, not on a healthy, authentic connection. Those who only seek a partner to suffer less to save themselves or to fill their own inner void will always fail at the same pain points. Partnership is not a wish concert for our needs, but an invitation to recognize ourselves.
True love begins with us. She asks us to find the courage to look at us honestly, to lay down our masks, to break through old blockades and to become internally free. She is not a savior, but a mirror that shows us where we can grow and heal. And often it does not matter with this knowledge whether you remain single or in a relationship. It is not about the status but about the quality of the connection – to itself and to others.
If we accept and accept ourselves, we create a space where authentic encounters become possible. True love is not a possession, but a letting go. Don’t ask, but give. And in this space, what we are looking for deep within us is: freedom, growth and the ability to truly they were
All Love
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I don’t know a couple from time to time when we’d take out my grandparents (they should have separated but come from a generation where you didn’t make it socially). There you will constantly grow up, views and priorities change and teenagers are also not well known for the emotional stability you need for a lasting relationship.
My best friend is gay. When he was with his friend, the two were 16 and 17. One is a police officer and the other personal trainer. After the personal trainer retrieved the Abi at the evening school, he was studying for a few years in Berlin (7 hours away from my best friend) who, when they were together for 3 years, led a distance relationship for 4 years. Now they are 28 and 28 1/2, since they were 18 (until the interruption of the distance relationship), have now bought themselves a house and have adopted children and are engaged.
out of the two, I know two more couples (but are all the relationship between two men and they are not married) who have been together since they were 14 and 16. They are now 26 and 28 and the others are also around the 12-13 years together and also at the end of 20/beginning 30 meanwhile. But I think this is very rare and in most cases not the rule.
LG Levi m/24
The couples from this life span I remember have now all joined together with other partners separately or later. Exception: my grandparents.
Nevertheless, this is naturally possible because each person and each pair is individual.
Obstacles can be that today there are much more possibilities to live out its indifference.
In the past, one often went to work directly after the 8th grade and then often accepted the profession of his parents and usually stayed in the place where one comes from.
Today, more and more Abitur, go to study, make student exchanges. In young years, many are more likely to move within Germany than before, for example by studying. As a result, it is also more common to deal with other lifestyles and individual ways of life. This is, of course, also good, but it also leads to the fact that there are given things being overthinked in break-up phases (e.g. from school to training), which can then lead to friction points (not having to).
One of my best colleagues met his wife in kindergarten. When they were 15 years old, they were a couple, and they married 23. They have 4 long grown-up children and are still happy married.
Not particularly likely, but it’s natural. In general, the teens are to try out different partners and make a firm bond, but some find their jackpot already frueh.
I know a lot of people with it, but also a lot of people with whom it eventually went wrong. Often it’s so long until it comes to family planning, because you only notice that you have different ideas for the next few years. One might want 26 children and the other only 36.
Then there are also those who live apart when the children are older. My patentant and my godfather have, for example, only separated with the middle of 40 and have been together as far as I know since the high school.
My parents have been together since they were 17 and are still today.
My sister came together with her first husband with 14, divorced with 23 and married 27 someone new with whom she now has children.
With many celebrity/influencer pairs, it is also so that they have come together as young people and have separated themselves in their twenties or thirty. Bibi and Julienco are the most well-known example I think of.
In the period between 2005 and 2010 (when I was 15-20) I have seen a number of relationships coming and going in my environment. Some stayed longer, some only a few weeks. The problem has often been the same: in most cases, no rigor swings up very quickly, the Kiddies react there and are not yet so mature that they stand over things … and “ready” you are only then, if you no longer need to emphasize it.
The time of tea or Educational phases have actually survived only two relationships from then on – and one to today. I was even there when my friends met at a party (she was 16 and he was 17). With her, I was in the clique before, and I immediately found him sympathetic, we became friends fast. They were about two years later for the first time parents, got married, didn’t have it easy at first, but they made it today are a great family and have what is lacking – cohesion, warmth of heart, love… they are too envy and the kids really got it really awesome.
The other couple met when both were 14. They were together for over ten years and were considered to be a very great couple, so “the beautiful good student with Vorshowevita and the cool gentle Italian with the soft eyes”, was married pompously, but a year later he went strange. It was very bitter, it was deceived as on the weekly market, and it was called Papagallo and Schwerenöter, “because all Italians were like that.” It was quite different. Afterward, I learned that he wanted children and a family, and she was very bare to him, because her other things (career and a hobby) were more important. In retrospect, he was much more likeable to me. I met him a few times while shopping, he was still very friendly. Today he is supposed to be a family father while his ex-wife trembles at home and sends cryptic WhatsApps to people and takes it to others when they have a relationship and are happy :-/
My first relationship lasted from 17 to shortly before 21. We then had disagreements. She wanted to study after the Abi and FSJ and to Southern Germany, I refused and we did not come to a denominator. We have separated into friendship, are still platonically friendly (Trennung was in April 2011) and are in regular contact. It’s very nice.
It’s not impossible, but unlikely.
1. Both have no experience. -> You make mistakes
You learn from mistakes and can make your next relationship better
Two. Most are easy to shy to enter a relationship(at least with me)
But if chemistry really fits between you and you forgive much, that can actually be what
I would say quite unlikely.
Some or many are simply not capable of binding in young years.
With me, JEDE went wrong from 18-28 about and that was not ONLY to the women I had like that.
Like I said. Today I think that I or even both of us were simply not mature for a really lasting bond.
And as far as I can judge, I’m not alone. You always think that you’re such a grown-up and rdy would be in this age… but sometimes seriously, you’re just doing something yourself.
And yes, I know to the one or other young people it is now in the fingers quite according to the motto: “ABER I am so grown up saying all” blablablubb…
Like I said. I was just as 😉 Wait. At some point you look back and understand why it never really worked.
This is rather unlikely, only one couple knows where that happened. Of course, I can only limit myself to my environment, but the quota looks very bad.
I met my husband with 17.
We have married after six years and just before our 38. He’s late for the wedding day.
My sister has met her husband with 18 years old and they are now married for almost 40 years
My brother-in-law has known his wife at the primary school. Both never had a different relationship, marriage now lasts longer than 40 years.
I would have more examples in my closer environment where that worked. Of course, I also know a lot of people who didn’t.
From my social environment, I only know one person who is now married to her first childhood love. On the other hand, numerous counter-examples (for example). In this respect, I describe this, subjectively, without statistics in hand, rather unlikely.
lg up
I am such an example 😃
I met my husband with 13, almost 14. He was 16. Something sparked and cracked. The famous butterflies.
Three years later (16 and 19) we came together.
After ten years we married and are now married for 33 years. We also do not intend to change this voluntarily. produkt️
It’s similar to my brother and his wife. Seems to be in the family. 😉
With us in the vintage with 100 people there have been a couple since school hours that today (over 35 years later) is still together. It’s the only pair of this kind I know.
All other “Schoolshatz relations” also from my later acquaintance have not survived the changing living conditions to Schulde, or they were separated later when children were already there.
This may probably be a very low probability, but naturally happens. The fact that you find a relationship at this age is very high. With increasing maturity and life experience, you will also get to know other life partners with whom marriage and coexistence is more likely.
I heard examples where it was going well for a while,zb with my cousin,but they were divorced again
Unprobably not impossible!
With 10 rather low, with 18 probably
I know a couple who are both over 80. They already met in kindergarten.
It is not possible to derive any probability from this. Most people actually get to know each other during their professional life.
Statistically, every second marriage is divorced. And apart from unmarried couples.
Rare
This miracle was accomplished by Helmut and Loki Schmidt.