Wie überzeuge ich meine eltern von meinem traum?
Ich bin 15 und ich wollte schon immer Tänzerin werden. Da ich seit langem kpop liebe dachte ich mir ich kann ja mal eine audition einsenden. Es würde ja so oder so nicht angenommen werden. Jetzt habe ich aber ein Problem. Ich bin durch alle drei bewerbungsrunden durch und dürfte anfangen zu trainieren. Allerdings bin ich deutsch und lebe auch in deutschland. Ich muss dafür aber nach Korea ziehen. Meine eltern sind strickt dagegen. Wie überzeuge ich sie?
You’ve been heading for years? If so, you could create a recording exam in a school that is specially designed for dance. Otherwise, public schools stay with a sports branch.
From mother’s point of view. I would never let my child go to a foreign country alone in life, where the language doesn’t even speak. You don’t even have a completed training. What if your dream is highly likely not fulfilled? Then you come back with 20 and you can make jobs + have tens of thousands of euros debt (for the trainee training you have to pay for yourself)
I wouldn’t allow it 100% – if my child has a dream, then it should be at his own risk from 18 on.
Thanks for the comment. Are there certain schools you would suggest? In three of the companies I have advertised, you don’t have to pay the training if you don’t go out of your own will. But of course I understand it’s difficult to move. What is important to say in Korea, I could continue my school education.
and that’s exactly what they speculate. The training is EXTREM hard. There will certainly give up 50% of people – be it because it will be too much for them or because they don’t even pack it healthily (and even for health reasons, this is your free will that you are going to)
especially since you can’t do anything alone with 15 GAR. You need the signature and understanding of your parents everywhere. And that won’t be so easy to get if you live several thousand km away. This also means that they also have to hand over part of their “corjust” to someone aliens. You do that all the time (e.g. when you’re in school, your teacher is responsible for you, at least in the time they are at dri). But here someone would be worried for you that it’s just important that he can make money with you. He doesn’t care if you don’t want to.
which is also recognized by us? And you can do 8h training + 8h lessons in normal school a day?
there are no chances to convince her. you could at the earliest with 16 with the help of the Youth Office try to sue consent but to be honest I don’t give you any hopes
Can you speak Korean? No? Or fluent English? Then start with it right away. And in the meantime endurance sports to fall.
Four months ago, you wanted to become an glacialist. Obviously your dreams change like the seasons.
That’s what NIE is gonna do.
Short info, I think you got something wrong. I’ve been dancing since I’m three. I love skating but also dancing I seem to have better chances. In my opinion, you can also love two sports
What about the languages? Without Korean you have no chance
If you work with the human psyche and rhetorical stylistic means and generally with communication, then you will find a way to get it. On the Internet, no one can answer you because no one knows your parents and especially does not weaken them. Only you know these.
Not at all.
Your dream is, working in Korea as a dancer? According to Korean working conditions, social services? Under loud “sporty flagship packages” which could easily work as a model with us in Germany? For a maximum of 10 years – and after that, you’ll be too old to arrange? That’s your dream?
You don’t have the lead of an idea of how culturally and economically it is. Please inform yourself, this is the least you need to convince argumentatively.
Conversely, if you return after years, you don’t care about your Korean mini career here in Germany.
You can’t work in Korea with 15. It’s not gonna be anything old. In Korea you are very careful with personalities.
Good luck!
Actually, I can work there. Most so-called trainees start at my age. A friend of mine is also there (sir is Indonesian). So I know how it is. Yes, it’s extremely but keep my dream now.
And then do you begin with the cardinal error not to tell your parents about your profession or ask them for help?
You trade behind their backs, even though your parents have to bear the responsibility of the Korean state too?
So openly and honestly: if you continue so dilettanically, you will not be able to implement your plans. Responsive action goes in principle – and this is the condition for such plans.
Go ahead and talk to your parents about everything and uneasy. This is your only chance for your plans. Provide verifiable and resilient documents for your dance training. The risk that this is all fake is quite big.
All right.
I talked to my parents. And I will not move without her permission to another country. I just want to know if someone has more good reasons etc. I also understand my parents, it was just a question.
You can’t force her to make your dream come true. With the help of the Youth Office, this could go if you are 16.