How to survive a breakup?
I feel terrible and can't sleep or eat anything.
I feel terrible and can't sleep or eat anything.
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Hello, I'm facing a difficult situation in my life. At 19, shortly after graduating, I experienced my first heartbreak when the girl I was in love with didn't return my feelings. Completely broken and emotionally devastated, I desperately sought her attention. To gain their attention, I began to invent many lies about myself to evoke…
Hey,
a separation is certainly not easy. And it will definitely take time until you get over the relationship.
It is usually the case that there are still feelings for the ex-partner in the case of a separation of at least one person. The fact that these feelings are no longer answered is that you feel terrible and also notice physical discomfort, such as insomnia and appetite.
I’d like to give you some things that helped me break up at that time:
I hope I could help you.
LG Markus
Keep it and talk as much about it as possible, possibly also with like-minded people in corresponding Internet forums (separateschmerz.de, for example, if this is still available).
Love is now unfortunately one of the few things that you can hardly change actively. It’s veworked, “grayed” and at some point it doesn’t hurt anymore.
Good improvement
The magic word is distraction. First of all, I would banish everything that reminds you or Him from the field of view. Then “give” you a few days where you can get really bad.
But then you have to try to distract yourself with everything. Go out with friends, take something. Do something main thing you’re as little as possible with yourself.
Next, you have to stay one day after another. It’ll be easier sometime. Sometimes it happens faster, sometimes slower. But it’s gonna happen.
Hard time, no question. Try to come among people, distract yourself, grab one, try to get to know something new. You will see, with every day the pain will be less and you will blossom again. Worked, did the same thing over 30 years ago.
I don’t trust
This is also not a problem. At the beginning it always hurts very much. You can and must break this ring. Take your time, get your distance first, and you’ll get out of curiosity.
Hold it!
It hurts very much for a time. You feel scary, everything is bad and the motivation is not there.
But it gets better with time, believe me!
Hold on!
If the person were destined for you, you would find each other harmoniously. No jealousy, no quarrel, and both I love/will tell you. This knowledge 💡 will give you peace of mind.
I know. Even had suicidal plans because I didn’t see a future after that. All feelings were destroyed or abused. And then a best friend I had neglected for this stupid man was the best sailor. It was a “go to Canossa” to her, but the right way.
I had patience too. And talk to people about your feelings 🙂
At the moment, distraction in the form of a move helps me with the associated renovation and assembly work.
I don’t think so. If the tuss wants to go, let her go. I don’t marry, so you don’t have a widow’s pension.
It’ll be okay. In a couple of months, laughter.