How should we act?
My father isn't feeling well; he's having trouble breathing and is staying in his hotel room. He's refusing hospitalization, despite his doctor's advice.
He asked us to get him some cigarettes and two whiskey and cokes (€3 for cigarettes in Turkey, drinks are included in the all-inclusive package) and gave us €10, saying he would have given us the rest. He's addicted to alcohol and cigarettes. And he doesn't eat much – not at all. He hasn't eaten anything again today.
Instead, we packed him water and salad, fruit and vegetables, and brought him a proper meal: pasta with vegetable casserole and covered in cheese.
He got angry, wanted alcohol, cigarettes stayed and wanted the €10 back, and said he didn't want the food.
The food was from the buffet, I don't know if we were allowed to take it with us, we ate and we're full so it stays there, but it's not that important now.
We're at a loss as to what to do. We wanted to do him a favor, to make him finally think about it, but he's so stubborn and vehemently refuses everything.
Departure is Tuesday evening.
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You can’t do anything. Only your father can change something, but apparently he can or does not want it. With such a behavior you have 0 chances.
How long will he survive?
It damages the body with alcohol and cigarettes, and gives the body hardly any nutrients, vitamins due to the inadequate almost unexisting diet.
If he behaves like this and doesn’t see it, you can’t do anything except to hope you get him back home.
All right, two more days.
Well, if he continues to be so bad (or worse) it can be that the airline refuses to take.
No, legal KK, but my parents travel abroad every year, always 2 weeks.
Not if he’s ill. Does he have a health insurance?
The flight is paid for on a flat-rate journey? He has to go home?
Give him back the 10,-€ and tell him that you will not support it if he believes that this is the right thing he has to see himself as he comes to it.
After other questions from you, you’re very keen to finally inherit…
You know, I’ve been wondering if you’d be friends with the idea.
Sorry, but you can’t worry about your father’s life at the same time, and at the same time you don’t get rid of Grandma’s heritage.
What does Grandma have to do with it?
It is about my grandma (now 78 soon 79) who dies of it.
And then who’s still alive?
What right do you care about the succession with your grandmothers, but not with your father? You’re so keen on the fortune.
Then it should be in your monetary interest that your parents do not live long.
You’re so keen on the heritage.
First everything goes to my mother’s terms with the will, everything gets only the spouse, then the children.
It means sharing with my brother.
If it were nice to get something from Grandma, unfortunately, she had once said that the grandchildren only got their biological children.
But my father’s grandma is likely to survive. So your mother became my originaloma 94.
Well.
If your father is not able to fly then he stays alone
After the tenth day, for example, no one had more bock and father became sick.
Something incomprehensible. Now it’s not so long and this 1 day I can also bridge with walking and play some phone and switch.
So the airline can let him stand when they see he has health problems?? But why?
If the airline says that your father is not transportable, then he will not be taken point then he goes to the hospital
If your father is as sick as you describe it, there may be problems. This is clear to all reasonable adults
But in Turkey?? And we fly back alone (we also have to go back to work soon, I will be on Thursday and mama next week).
I don’t want to paint him, at least get him home.
I’d rather wonder why he’ll make an all inclusive holiday at all.
Alcohol only goes with All Inclusive. And he drinks abundantly.
But that is the less worry than that he breaks up with his lifestyle and we do not want to support it by bringing him over alcohol and cigarettes.
An adult should be so smart and follow a doctor’s advice. I would drag my father to the hospital if it had to be. Health is going on.
Because of the Alk for free, of course.
It would be much more expensive in every hotel bar than the food he dispenses with.
I wonder why you’re going to an all inclusive holiday with an alcoholic, that’s foreseeable.
So if every drink would cost money – we had that, 10 years ago, no all inclusive, he had never done that again.
1 beer has cost 5€ and already there he always drank 2 because he couldn’t let it be every evening.
There it was not so extreme with the alcohol at that time, and smoking and this constant need not be fed is also conspicuous.
He wouldn’t.
Yeah, but probably he would drink less.
He would drink every day at a hotel bar without all inclusive, probably 50 € or more.
He had 4x whiskey Cola tonight, and all the beers he drank from morning to afternoon .. I didn’t count them.
Yeah, he’s still all inclusive. Mom moves behind and covers his behavior.
It drinks from morning to afternoon beer, several liters, and evening whiskey cola .
Pick up the kcal. You’re probably in the daylight of 2000 kcal. That’s why he doesn’t want to eat and is always fed.
And he decides alone where you make a holiday together?
For example, you could make a clear statement