Wie selbstbewusster wirken/werden?

Hello Lukas,

First of all, I want to tell you that you are not alone. It is normal that many young people have to fight with lack of self-confidence. But I want you to understand that you are unique and that you have the potential to feel confident and confident.

You’re much stronger than you might believe right now. It is important to realize that self-confidence is not something that comes from the outside or that you simply acquire. It is a journey that requires time, patience and work. But trust me, it’s worth it.

One of the first things you can do is to recognize yourself and identify your strengths. Everyone has talents and skills that make them unique. Take your time to think about your successes, whether in school, in sports, in your hobbies or in other areas. Write a list of these successes and remember it regularly. This will help you strengthen your confidence.

It is also important to be surrounded by positive people. Find friends who support you and accept you as you are. Spend time with people who encourage you and help you believe in yourself. Avoid people who pull you down or criticize you all the time. You deserve to be surrounded by people who build you.

Another way to strengthen your self-confidence is to try new things and expand your comfort zone. Sometimes we feel insecure because we move in a limited frame. Be it a new hobby, a new sport or a different kind of challenge. By opening up new experiences, you will not only develop new skills, but also strengthen your self-confidence.

It is also important to treat yourself lovingly. Be patient with yourself and accept that there will be heights and depths on the way to self-confidence. Allow yourself to make mistakes and learn from them. Treat yourself with kindness and respect your own limits. Avoid negative self-conversations and impose them through positive and building statements. You are valuable and deserve to love yourself.

Finally, I would like to say that you are not alone. There are many resources and support systems you can use to. Talk to a trusted person, be it a family member, a friend, a teacher or an advisor. Sometimes it may be helpful to use professional help to support you in your journey to self-confidence.

Believe in you and your potential to become a self-confident and self-confident person! Remember that it takes time, but you will make progress. Be patient, be kind to yourself and trust in your skills.

If you believe in God, I finally have an encouraging thought for you: God sees us completely different from that which people generally do. He does not pay attention to special achievements or gifts and not to externalities. What counts for him is our innermost being.

Therefore it is in the Bible: “For God does not see things as man, because man only sees what appears before his eyes, but Jehovah [or God] sees in the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). So he knows exactly what kind of person you actually are, even though many others do not recognize. And if you love him, you are very valuable in his eyes, and he will help you with all your problems!

LG Philipp