How do I write to my grandmother to tell her child has passed away?
Hello. My father passed away a few weeks ago, and he, or rather, we, haven't had any contact with my grandmother/his mother for almost 30 years. But I feel like I should write to her to tell her that her son has died. Unfortunately, I don't know her either. There must have been reasons for that.
What would you write to a woman you don't even know if one of her sons died?
Or should I even write to her?
The same goes for my mother. She messed up back then, and my father didn't want to have anything to do with her for the last five years. But they were married for almost 20 years and have two children.
I haven't had any contact with her in almost two years. Again, my question: Do you think I should write to her?
thanks in advance
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You should write both….I also had no contact with my grandparents for years because of my parents…we were invited to the funeral of my grandpa… then it turned out that my mother had a big conflict with both, but absolutely nothing has to do with me…now I have an intimate relationship with my grandma….
I wouldn’t write that, that’s something you should do personally. In addition, in case someone reacts extremely) shock etc.) , a second person who can also call a doctor in case of emergency. You don’t know before.
I wouldn’t do it personally with an unknown person.
If there is no more contact, it is not necessary to tell them. They don’t care. Your mother had problems with your father. Your father had problems with his mother.
I wouldn’t tell them. In the end they are still happy that the son / husband is dead. There are things. And yes, there are also people who have such feelings.
you should write her and express a regret to have to send such a bad message. The common mourning for the deceased father/son can unite you.
Ask yourself how you would feel, you should tell her personally if possible. Yes yes I know but besides you there is no one, your decision 😉
I’d call or just go by. No one wants to see his child died. You want to be prepared for that.