Wie konnte es sein, dass meine Großmama eine Krebsdoagnose erhalten hat und nie auch nur einen Funken Sorge oder Ängste hatte?

Kurz zur Vorgeschichte. Meine Großmama hatte vor 2 Monaten die Diagnose Brustkrebs. Sehr früh entdeckt. 8mm groß. War klar, das muss raus. Erst hat sie den Termin nochmal locker um 2 Wochen verschoben weil sie einen Zahnarzt Termin hatte. Es war im Endeffekt alles gut. Es hat nichts gestreut, aber das wusste sie ja vorher nicht. Zwar wurde ihr gesagt, eine Chemo muss sie sicher nicht machen, aber wie kann man so seelenruhig sein? Wie konnte sie sich so sicher sein? Ist das einfach eine harte Schale und ihr hat es innerlich doch was ausgemacht, was sie nicht zugeben will? Oder ist es einfach eine enorme Resilienz?
Wo sie das uns engsten erzählt hat, waren wir fast am heulen und sie nur so in der Art „heult mal nicht so rum, das ist doch nur eine op“

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minimax11
5 months ago

Your grandmother is probably older. The thought of death is no longer strange to her. – at the age, you’re expecting it, and she’s happy if it’s going off.

The relatives are then mostly more shocked than the person concerned.

By the way, a mum carcinoma ( breast cancer) does not necessarily mean a death sentence. One of the most researched cancers. With good opportunities now.

michi57319
5 months ago

She’s long enough in the world to not become hysterical even with this. She spoke in detail with her doctors, there was none of you. They’ll have already told her that it’s not dramatic and will. She trusted the doctors and brought everything down. I’m all right.

Breast cancer has not been a death sentence for a long time.

Loka95
5 months ago

She’ll be very scared inside. But many people don’t want to let others see it. In order not to burden others to not completely break together or self-protection.

Loka95
5 months ago
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That’s how people are.

Doktormythos2
5 months ago

Because she accepted death and death.

marga60rita
5 months ago

Breast cancer in the early stage is good to fight.
That’s what I’ve heard 30 years ago. I wouldn’t have panic either.

Your grandmother might have been informed.
When it comes to cancer, the relatives are often no help. Unfortunately!

MichaelLvG
5 months ago

She was told that a chemo must not make her, but how can you be so calm? How could she be so sure? Is that just a hard shell, and you have something inside that she doesn’t want to admit? Or is it just an enormous resilience?

Ask her…

Provozierender
5 months ago

It has experienced other things