How can I convince my parents not to move?
Hey,
My parents and I moved to the town where we live now almost eight years ago. I've felt at home and welcome here from the very beginning. I've gotten to know many people and places here and grew up here until my teenage years. Now my parents want to move back to the town where my mother is originally from. I've made my big dream of becoming a firefighter come true, and I'd be able to forget most of it if we moved away.
I have everything I need around me here… shops, train station, etc. Everything is extremely well located. My mother's hometown has become a different place than it was 30 years ago… I try to explain that to her all the time, but she always says, "We have to think about our future, too." "It would be better for you, too."
I really don't want to leave here, and I can't convince my parents of my opinion. They want to look at an apartment this week.
Does anyone have any tips?
Forget it.
Realistic, you won’t be able to do that. – You’ll have to move with them.
The only thing you’re left is to do the best. You can go to the fire department somewhere else.
That’s clear that I can get the aucg where different. I don’t want to. It’s like leaving a family
Yeah, that’s it.
But you’ll still have to.
Once you’re 18, you can pull back (if you can afford it).
That’s all right.
As long as you’re not 18, your parents decide where you live. End.
What is the reason for the move?
The problem is, you won’t be able to change it, you can only try to make the best of it. Is there no fire brigade in the new place?
I don’t know. Got it that way. But this firefighter is like a family for me. I can’t just leave
Then ask your parents why you’re moving. Is that far away from the current residence?
It will also become the fire brigade at the new residence to the family.
If it’s not far, you can still meet your friends there. So you don’t have to throw away anything.
My mother wants to go back to her home so much is clear. Not very far. The problem is that I have built up a really wonderful environment with a lot of trust and don’t want to throw this away
you can forget. you can also follow your hobbies in a new location