Wie kann ich meine Eltern überreden für Reitunterricht?
Heyy, ich wollte fragen ob es hier welche gibt, die wissen wie ich meine Eltern überreden kann, mir Reitunterricht zu geben bzw mich reiten lassen können. Wir haben dieses Thema oft angesprochen, sie sagen aber immer, nein warte bis zum Frühling. Beim Frühling dann, nein warte noch etwas. Das geht immer noch so weiter und ich möchte endlich reiten…Weiß jemand wie ich sie überreden kann?
You will certainly have their (comprehensible) reasons. financially the sport is quite expensive, even riding lessons 1x a week become more expensive and at the end of the month it is already a lot of money.. But also time-consuming. If the riding school is very off, you have to go back and drive back… Dirt on/in the car, the riding equipment is also not cheap.. and and and.
You can find at most a compromise with them, for example, that you (if possible) drive by bike/bus, and they are not dependent on you to drive. Or make yourself mini-jobs/student jobs to pay your riding lessons
But don’t bother her with the subject, otherwise it won’t be twice and triple. If you need to put back your saved money, and make your dream come true later/after you grow up. Don’t run away!
Greetings! ☺️
Don’t talk, don’t discuss – create facts. That’s what I did. Parents do not harass with the topic, but gain access to the object of desire by “highly serving”. Go anywhere, where horses are. Watching, listening, packing if possible.
The saying was: “One thing you see in life, you only learn to ride through cowards. ‘
And instead of riding lessons, you only wish to have literature for your birthday. If you know these in and out, you will be taken seriously by the horsemen and be allowed to stop there.
Believe me, if the parents put it that way, they don’t want it secretly. I used to ride, asked my parents, and they pushed it up like that.
If you are older and can go to work in a bit, you can finance it yourself
Talk? No.
But just DRÜBER-reden and quiet and objective. That means, from your side, asking for reasons and not shaking or even coming with non-arguments.
Why don’t your parents want this? Wait for what? What are their arguments?
How old are you?
If it’s too expensive, earn your own money. Or ask in the riding club whether you can earn your riding lessons with stable work.