How can I clean up my apartment when there are spiders everywhere?
I'd like to clean up my boyfriend's apartment. It's tiny, incredibly messy, and there are spiders and cobwebs everywhere.
I'm feeling really bad mentally, and I'd like to get organized. That would be a bit of a mind-clearing. The only real problems are the spiders and the fact that there's just so much stuff lying around. There's just no room to just collect it all.
My boyfriend recently went back to work and doesn't do much around the house himself. I really hate going into the kitchen. Everything is growing moldy. I 'm trying to encourage him to do the dishes right after cooking, because he loves cooking and is good at it. Of course, the dishes always get left unwashed, which makes them harder to clean. And every time he gets upset that he doesn't have the space.
If I can somehow make it into the kitchen, it's only with a mask and gloves. Even in the living room/bedroom, I can't touch anything without it.
It's really a burden, but I have nowhere else to go because my own apartment doesn't look any better and I don't feel comfortable anywhere else. I'm just desperate and am looking for help here before I have to turn to experts.
I can understand you well.
And your thoughts will be better if you have brought order to your life.
You probably have too much stuff. All that’s broken flies to the garbage or is repaired.
Everything you want to be important for your future life. All you’ve got to stand around can go.
Make yourself 3 boxes: garbage, selling / losing and keeping.
Then I guess you have to get it. Get out! Clean up and clean up.
If I understood it correctly, you have time. Use the time.
TV out, red from the couch and on it. You’ll see that it’s better if you cleared the coffee table and made it clean.
Good luck!
Supplement. Spiders hate the smell of broken chestnuts.
So get out, collect chestnuts, hit on the hammer and figure out. Then the spinning problem disappears.
How’s it going to clean up?
The spiders can be sucked in relatively reliably with a vacuum cleaner. The problem seems more to be work and motivation. And if the psyche is in the way, in the end only one skilled person will help you get right before you can bring the warning to the front.
I wish you all the best and good improvement 🙂
With the right motivation you can make it safe!
Thanks for the building words. I’m already in treatment because of my psyche and also I’m taking pills. Nen vacuum cleaners might be able to lie down. Just ask where it’s not even for the place.
you do not do anything good, except you do it, rooms with it, and sucks up the spider web, cleanses the vacuum cleaner otherwise come back the spiders, ventilate the bud before it winter becomes,and heating,wet air leads moisture from inside to outside,welcome removal,wet cleaning,or looking for new apartment. We couldn’t live in such circumstances,but everyone.
It’s not that easy to clean up with that. He’s always working and free on Sundays. He doesn’t like it anymore. We already have a new apartment in which we will move this year. My psyche just doesn’t do it anymore.
it may become more teeurer than you think that now 2 dwellings are not very rentable sivd ,then come even more courtly stress to this a psychologist might help there are cripples that cause such symptoms,e.g.Chronic Unlust🤔
Leave the spiders and their nets alone. You’re not garbage. If you do something to them, it will continue to go mentally down with you. Or it’s worse for you.
So the spinning of the spiders also borders magic
You should help each other.
I’m trying, but he’s free on Sundays, and he doesn’t want to do anything in the house.
Workers also have free nights.
Well, he’ll come home in the evening and make something to eat. He almost always works through 8h and then is completely done by the work. I don’t want to clean up at night. Make noise and we have a lot of neighbors. Depending on which layer it has, we stand at 9 or 10. And we usually go to sleep at 1, 2.
He really loves me. And I can’t finish because I don’t get clear on my own.
How many hours does he sleep? The rest is leisure.
He’s waiting for you to be the girl for everything. Then he saves the money for ne cleaning power.
You can’t move.
If a man steals you, he doesn’t love you. _ Then self-protection and end.
He’s only coming home 21 o’clock and then he doesn’t want to. And in the morning it’s not because it’s only 10 minutes before he gets to work.
Thanks for the help. <=3
I’ll just talk to him again.