Wie ist es Schwanger zu sein?

An alle Mütter oder an alle Schwangere…

Wie ist es eigentlich schwanger zu sein?Oder zu waren?

Ich kann mir das sehr schmerzhaft vorstellen und ich finde dass es bestimmt auch unangenehm war…was war das schlimmste?Wird es wirklich sehr wehtun?Ich weiß nämlich nicht ob ich wenn ich älter bin mit Harz 4 ein Kind zu kriegen oder eines zu adoptieren? Gibt es noch was anderes?

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Kugelflitz
2 years ago

Instead of planning civil money (Hartz IV is abolished), you can also go to work. An adoption is therefore excluded anyway.

Otherwise, pregnancy is neither painful nor unpleasant. Unpractical and annoying perhaps, but pain should not occur.

I just found the wrong diagnosis.

Kugelflitz
2 years ago

Love and care for yourself.

If you have depression, turn to your pediatrician who leads you to a specialist.

Kugelflitz
2 years ago

You shouldn’t get kids.

putzfee1
2 years ago

With Hartz4 you should not get a child or adopt one. Have a good school degree, get a training and then find a job. And look at your mental problems as an omnivorous thing… I hope you’re in therapy.

A mentally beaten woman without a job and without a regulated income is not suitable for providing and raising a child.

A partner and a firm relationship would also be highly recommended before dealing with the issue of family planning. You got that?

Pfefferk0rn
2 years ago
Reply to  Emilyratt

How about a cat?

putzfee1
2 years ago
Reply to  Emilyratt

So not that I don’t give you a child, but in your current situation you can’t take responsibility for it. There are kids who scream a lot and sleep very little, you’re fast at his limits… and you’re likely to be much faster. Then you still have to take care of the child and can’t just put it somewhere in the corner because you don’t have any desire or strength anymore.

So as hard it sounds: I actually think a cuddly animal would be the better solution for you as long as you don’t have a fundamental change.

Pfefferk0rn
2 years ago

I’d take you to a baby. Your only question: speaks volumes… against your own child!

wilees
2 years ago

Slight and gripping – no German youth office would let you adopt a child as an educator of services according to SGB II.

Regarding pregnancy and birth – the most strenuous / most painful is the expulsion phase.