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Volkerfant
1 year ago

I was beaten by my mother in childhood and insulted, devalued and humiliated. After all, I came home.

My self-esteem was zero at that time, but I was glad I was gone from my home environment.

At home I learned recognition, I was valued and at school I got really good. I got more and more success experiences, my recognition continued, I was praised and my self-esteem increased. Accommodation in the home winged me and drove me forward.

After my dismissal, I came back to the parents’ house and got back whistles, but my goal was to finish the training and then pull it out.

This happened much faster than expected, because with 16 years I got an internship in a distant city, with food and food and moved away. Did my degrees, studied, married, got children I treated as I would have wished for me, without blows, without hurricanes, without insults, etc…

Volkerfant
1 year ago
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Thank you for the star.

zmeyer68
5 months ago

My girlfriend was physically and mentally abused by her parents in Him Kindness.

This went from bruises, punches with that of the bare hand, with the cooking spoon to the belt. At the age of 21, he was beaten by his mother for no reason. She had to fight for Abitur and was then forced to train in spite of an Abi and a desire for study.

All these experiences have led to a burnout in professional life and in private to great mistrust, black vision and uncertainty. “They all find me stupid,” “That doesn’t work anyway.”

I think it is traumatized and needs professional hife, of which she does not want to know.

What else can you do?

ZoeyPauk
1 year ago

I’m still afraid of strong authorities. Feel like a little helpless child who doesn’t get his mouth.

I am very careful who I leave in my close environment and I cannot abide by the lack of harmony. Then panic quickly depending on the situation.

Samiscold
1 year ago

Not much. But don’t misunderstand, I myself wasn’t beaten right – that would be different. Just been there more often.

Is in the end just a point of many on the list of negativities from my childhood haha

Belliwell
1 year ago

My entire childhood has given that my life in adulthood is different. Not just violence. There were also years of social assistance and other negative things.

SirFragesteller
1 year ago

I’m a trauma patient. There’s always going to be falling back, and then I’m going to fuck myself. I am also told an unhealthy attitude to sexuality and contradictory behavior, but that doesn’t bother me very personally.

Uweh19
1 year ago

I am not very self-certified, have no circle of friends, live with my family withdrawn, am sensitive to noise, very quickly psychologically leached.