How do I find my self-love?
It is an extraordinary question, but it is important to me
No one can love me if I can't love myself, and I've never experienced love from the most important person, my mother. For her, I was just in the way, and that's how I feel about myself, too: I'm in my own way of finding love.
I would like to know how to find my self-love
I simply assume that you have an inner list, which you do not like and/or mean not to be able to.
Make a 2nd list in writing what you can find and what you can.
And what you wish and imagine for the future and then look what is realistic, what can and will (not have to) I achieve for me.
A kind of internal inventory.
True I have great inner list that has come together quite well with time. There was something new in every negative experience.
I think everyone has.
True, only not everyone seeks his self-love
The basis for this is to be able to accept yourself 100%, just as you are, without if and but. Then comes the rest, self-confidence, self-love.
Start to make yourself small compliments, every day
Be nice to yourself as you would be a good friend. 🫶🏼
Do things that make you happy and make you happy. You deserve to be loved, even by yourself.