Wie beurteilt ihr so so was ganz neutral?
Ich muss meinen kl Bruder, der schon fast 8 ist, oft helfen sein Zimmer aufzuräumen, weil er es angeblich alleine nicht kann. Ich musste das in seinem Alter auch alleine und alle meine Freunde lachen mich deswegen aus. Meine Eltern finden das ganz normal und helfen ihm aber selbst nicht. Findet ihr so was normal? Ich komm mir vor wie so ein opfer
No, that’s not okay, at least not if you had to do it yourself at the same age. Talk to your parents about it, but please calmly, that’s very important. Tell them you don’t want to help him anymore because he can learn it alone or just how you had to. That would be very unfair to you.
I don’t know how your parents react, maybe they’ll see it right away. If not, I would advise you to stay calm. You didn’t say anything wrong and not bad, so there’s nothing to discuss. For one word brings the other and dispute is pre-programmed.
Probably you’re quite young, it’s hard to keep your mouth shut. But you can believe me if you don’t say anything about it, your parents will think much more about what you said. I’d wish you.
So just because a child can do something at a certain age does not automatically mean that all other children can also be alone at the same age.
Your friends laughing at you…. I bet there’s at least one person who at the age of 8 needed help in clearing up his room, or even now the popo is behind.
Back to clean-up…. Why did you “have” your room at the age of 8 years? And… was it really clean? Or was it the children’s version (cuffing the teeth somewhere, pushing aside)? You were actually already able to clean up your room according to adult standards at age – how long did you need to learn that? How did you know where to start, how to go? Completely intuitive – or have you been taught by any person?
These are things you should think about – before you get excited about the little brother
At that time I still lived with my biological father and there was another sound, which I of course do not wish anyone.
But my stepfather is the exact opposite, and my mother just fits
No, I don’t think so. If he can’t do it at 8 years!) the time he learns it. But that’s not what you’re supposed to do.
Your friends laughing at you is quite unfair. Your brother needs help and your parents want you to support him, there’s nothing to laugh about friends. Your parents could also help your brother, but maybe the other tasks have to be done. Try to make sure that he cleanses his room a bit daily and doesn’t just pretend you have to help for a long time.
That’s not good.
If he’s supposed to do his homework, it’ll mean that he can’t do it on his own.
If you had to be able to do this yourself early, it must be your little brother. – Same law for all.
What’s wrong with that? I don’t understand. Either you like to do it or leave it. Together, it’s easier. Maybe it would make sense to say that he should try to clean up his stuff again