Why don't I get attention and partners?
Why don't men chase me anymore? I'm 27, and as a woman, I don't get any attention. I don't get messages often on Tinder and the like, and when I do, they only want one thing or message 100 other people.
When I was 20-23 I had a lot of choice, I would definitely have found a steady partner by my side.
So, does that mean no one wants me because of my age? Is it because men put less effort into me because I don't look youthful anymore? So men of all ages like a childlike appearance?
But there are plenty of ways to stay young and look good.
I want someone who is genuinely interested in me, cares about me, supports me, and is there for me. Why can't I have that? I want to lean on someone. I don't want to be alone and feel desired if it were just one person.
So what's wrong with my appearance/deportment/character? (Pictures under my last post)
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I got married with 2 children in 1968 and we had 49 good years together until the heathen came. My parents weren’t thrilled because they couldn’t get children anymore, but that was exactly the right decision for me, for us for our time together!
It’s not old. I wouldn’t be 18 years old. Because I’m twice as old and that’s still kids for me.
Maybe you should find the response you’re attractive…maybe you’re too boring…from look or so…it’s nothing to do with your age I’m 30 years old and still get a lot of inquiries etc. But I’m already forgiven… sometimes you have to take things in your own hands….
You look attractive and good. Your body dimensions are also completely ok. That’s great. And you’ve got a nice look.
I don’t see the problem at your age. Maybe self-doubt? Self-esteem? Unfounded dissatisfaction with yourself? You can’t answer your question spontaneously… the appearance, character, sympathy, empathy, humour and so much more come to it.
I wouldn’t sit on Tinder and Co. anyway. There are only 80% of men on Se*.
Depending on me, I’m looking for a partner who’s gonna fall into my arms.
But I think through my size and weight I don’t want to
Well, that’s the way
What do you think you’re right in your arms?
Someone to cuddle to love
Simple man simple needs
You can’t say that at all. Also depends a lot on your environment, whether they fit you at all. On Tinder, I don’t know who’s doing all this stuff, I’m not sure your description is boring for most, but I don’t know what you’ve got in it.
Did you change your age otherwise? Are you exposing more uncertainty or are you still able to maintain a conversation? Think about what was different with 20 – 23 than now. Was the environment different? It doesn’t always have to be one.
You have to look like your partner is, he likes funny jokes or he’s more like someone who doesn’t understand jokes I’m making it so easy always leave me a bit of time and have to get to know my partner if he’s what I want and you should also do that, look how he is.
went to a former acquaintance of me once so that all the people went after him;
no one goes after him today,
he no longer steals handbags and wallets and sits a very long imprisonment….
🙄