Why do girls hate me?

Hi Questionsexoerte27,

this can include one and/or several factors. Examples:

1: Outer! If you don't belong in their eyes, judge the surface and you're through below!

2: If you speak (example) 2 hours non stop about stamp or mother's cocky art, you are out! (Because the topics are not the youth interested, sond before many parents/grandparents! In the case of current topics, one should therefore be on the move.

2.A: So about clothes. No clothes the mother/grandmother likes, but what you like but also de fashion. (That means NOT to follow the new hip from Paris! And not necessarily that you have to wear what ALL are wearing! No! You have to feel comfortable with it, but also not as if you want to know your own grandmother in her youth!)

2.B: Absorption from the crowd and still stay true to yourself: Example: If 10 guys wear the same carded shirt and make it equal to them, one is only one of many among others! If you have a T-shirt, with a lustful and/or ambiguous and/or contemplative spell on it, you stand out from the crowd and the likelihood to be addressed increases! (It's different/refresher/new/interesting.

3: The best appearance/flame doesn't help if you have a social effect! Nice, friendly, helpful, should be normal for one. But also a certain degree of interesting or even mysterious and inspiring. Why do you love good movies? Because they are exciting, action loaded, ABE because you also want to know how it goes on AND because you find the main characters sympathetic!!!

4: You surely know it from yourself. You find it nice to report something experienced to someone else. Be it, something experienced in shopping, cinema, at work/school… Just what gave a good feeling (what positive for one)! And then you will certainly find it right if you can report it and listen to someone active! Use this AKTIV sebe BEWUSST one with others!

4.A: I had an active conversation with a girl over 30 minutes. My knowledge about this topic was: "It takes place under water!" That's it! I didn't know more!" However, I kept asking for targeted requests! What in turn led them to tell more about their favorite hobby. What makes her feel that I was interested in it and I became more likeable to her!*gg It was her hobby, and who doesn't love talking about his hobby, only really when targeted requests come? (I don't mean to ask questions like, "Did you? This takes place in the water, right?" That's a stupid question, and it could be an impression that has no interest in the subject. And the conversation can be finished!) More interesting (and more demanding for them) would be the question: "There are also, so I have read artificial reefs, where shipwrecks were deliberately sunk for various. Have you ever seen anything like that? How was that?" And she already has a new "request" and will answer it. And as you have asked a specific question on topic (possibly even unexpectedly for them, but still in their topic) your sympathy could probably rise with her!*gg

5: Bullying topic! This is a subject that can be filled with several books. I would still like to try to say something helpful. Could be long, though.*Sigh…

5.1,A: The reasons for bullying: There are probably as many sand grains on the beach. But some are noticeable. They say: A: envy! You're in something better than your bullying perpetrator, and that's why she's bullying you! B: Your bullying perpetrator has an inferiority complex and feels stronger when it acts a person (who is anxious in her eyes/shy/harmless/defenseless/victim), sees and through bullying thus feels better (what self-esteem!) and/or 2) can make itself more important within her circle of friends/seeking! For this purpose (viewed for itself and/or by reactions in this circle of friends) is obtained in view/respect/valuation, which minimizes its inferiority complex!

5.1,B: The person concerned has a personal reason against me. She just doesn't like you hate you personally, always WHY! This can be anything. Your voice! Your hair style! The shape of your nose! Personal experiences in the past! You remind her of a similar negative person in her past and she puts you in this "bubble"! And so on and now! Maybe she didn't like the one you liked her (in her first encounter) More dedicated to her friend than her "honess"!*g There are many reasons why ONE person starts an ANDEE person to bully!

6.A: Bullying, what to do???? 1) The easiest thing would be… capitulation, looking for a wide range and changing the company/school/friend circle!

6.B: (MY personal favorite!!!*fg…) CONFRONTATION! "Do you ask what??" Confrontation! Explanation: A person who likes you has a reason! Either she hates you or you're her goal so you just feel better. BUT… WHAT if THESE person is facing DIR (their victim)?? So don't get what she wants to get against you by bullying??? If you face YOU and ask your parole? You show her ACTIVE: "You want the ICH to do your homework? Make your shit alone! I won't do it anymore!" Your possible reaction: confusion as she did NOT expect that! OR, she threatens you! (I personally let NEVER be blackmailed!) If someone wants to blackmail me, then I want the PERSON DIRECTLY to translate his threat! (Example: "If you do this that NOT, then I publish photo A (or similar)!!!!" My answer: "I do NOT do it! And NOW publish the photo (or similar)! Let's go! Will it soon!!! Or was the pants full? First threatening and blackmailing, and then only big bucks and nothing behind it? So WAs is? Publish it now or should I show you to the cops, because of tried BLACKMAIL!!!*fg…

6.C: When you get pampered, the bully BÄRENSTARK will feel! However, if Parole offers, then you can see the one that you do not like everything! That this is for the bully NO Sunday walk, but requires more effort! When the bull starts, you will also see its "fine". And then you can turn the spit around too! Who says it's a bully of attackers and the bullying victim has to be the victim???*fg… If you know his opponent, you can be active as well, can you? If he's a bull, HIM can be bullied! "Eye for eye, tooth for tooth!" "As you do me, I give you!"

6.D: I personally am someone who is NOT happy! In my life, I've been doing quite loudly, with: "Working mates, superiors, masters, boss/Chefin, Labor Office!" And I won EVERY TIME(!)!!! Why? 1: I didn't let myself be intimated! 2: I can be VERY (like 10 donkeys!!*lol)!! 3: I can go further in my own anger, automatically! My "grandparent" only has to stand there without action (degree: "He has taken part!"), and I still get into my anger!

6.E: Visually speaking, I shoot 10(!) Tanks back! Or, in other words, I put all my personal and scientific power into the ring (plus personal strength!) to make a person in their closets white, finished, refuted, officially confirm that that person is unbelievable! And/or false assertions OR their knowledge and/or information is completely false and/or even propaganda!!!

(Personal info from me: Even if my above text was to work like this! No! I am NOT a person who would like to be better! (Shoe shiner, who would like to be a company manager! NO!") Fact is: I have early and late shift! (Night shift I refuse, my company knows, and there I would provoke conscious confrontation BEWUSST, I would dare someone to divide me for the night shift! I don't know anything! And if I were to be quit (DAS will be 3 times superior!!!) Or I then forward again to my shift manager! His testimony to me this week: "If you should be in the late shift next week, I'll report for the week sick! You know, you know, you get important information for us You do good work, are reliable, and if you are there you know it really is going!" planner (with whom I understand well and vice versa) my "guide" and "organization of employees/tasks" and "information transfer but also information acquisition (others inform me about important and/or relevant information and this from SICH!" (There are even people who appeal to me with first names that I had previously contacted NIE!!!) So, you could talk about me having a pretty good reputation within my company. (Do I ever talk about my salary NEW?????*thought…) But all this, do not fit from 12:03 to 12:04!!! NO!!!

I'm just how I am. Nice, friendly, good-natured, loving, helpful, and sympathetic.

"So, a handsome paper lion that you just have to say what he has to do and already he jumps! SUPER!!!"

INCORRECT!!!! But something like that! Okay, if I'm a ladder, it's me! I'll look everywhere! Tell me about everything. Keep exchanges with the revolving testers, true outputs, plant leaders, high-level shift management (independent of MY company!) and also with my colleagues (production line and also near-working area and true output!), is of course! And if they don't know, they'll ask me and I'll decide! And if I know it's better if a few load carriers have to be repacked, I'll say this, and then it'll be done!

Sure, everyone wants to get into the best light! It's understandable! However, there are also honest people who are really just honest and are of themselves! (My sincere and congratulations for this!!! (Why not!*fgg…)

You will be respected among work colleagues, accepted as a shift leader! Through their own "positive way", other people get to know one without having changed a word with them before!!! And by sympathy, experiences, certain appearance (I can, if I want AND the situation it requires, how a tyrannical dictator work/act/command! And then there are only YES or NO!