Why can't I have a bond with someone?
For a few years now I've noticed how little I care about any of the people around me. My siblings, parents, grandma, grandpa, aunts, uncles, I don't care about them. If one or all of them died tomorrow I wouldn't care. I always just pretend and answer "I love you too" so that they don't think I'm a psychopath, but I also feel how indifferent I am to many other things every day. Normal things that upset or make other people sad are of no interest to me. Nevertheless I feel something, just not for the people around me. I feel all human feelings, just not love for another person. When I pretend to listen sympathetically I think to myself in my head, actually I don't care and neither do you. Am I sick?
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Because you ask, you can’t care. Because people who don’t care, they don’t care. I just think you’re young? And maybe you feel like you don’t care about them? That maybe everyone just does his thing, but you’d like to spend time with them? And I’d be careful with dying. This may feel like this now, but ultimately it is something you don’t want to know.
Yes I’m still young and it’s busy me because I think that I might be mentally ill and have some fear as that still develops with years and no I wouldn’t like spending time with them I just go out and to them otherwise they would notice that they don’t care but if I’m gone I also feel relieved like a task that I had to do them would like to spend much more time with me and often ask if I can’t come out but I just feel so
That actually sounds a little like psychopathy. It’s bad if you’d harm you or other people.
Society and social contacts often work on the basis of unwritten rules, often based on emotions among themselves.
If you don’t have it, you lack a control mechanism and can harm your social space and also you.
Some psychopaths use this. Often, however, it is that psychopaths also damage themselves.
In doubt, call your health insurance and give you a list of psychologists that you can explain.
Many psychopaths can lead to a relatively normal life if they observe some social rules.
And if it’s not a psychopathy, you’re gonna have to tell a psychologist.
If a psychopathy is diagnosed with you, please contact me. I’ve always wanted to talk to a psychopath and see how it’s when you’re tied to less emotions.
Hello,
I don’t think you’re a psychopath. I don’t think you have feelings for your family either. I think you just don’t feel them right now. You write in your other question that your parents are not exactly great and have made many mistakes. Maybe you’re very angry at her, hurt by her behavior. Maybe you’ll make them internal accusations without pronouncing them. Maybe they demand a lot of you and you’re overloaded and want to have your rest before them. So that you do not feel excessive love for them when they are bad parents is understandable.
Think who you like most about your relatives. Maybe one of your siblings, an uncle or your grandma. Look at them separately. She won’t be in a pot with your parents. Write down what’s good about him/her. It would surprise me if there weren’t some positive feelings coming up.
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Can this be due to people who have been disappointed in your life and now have such an attitude? Or has it always been with you?
Such a long text without point and comma. You will have an introverted, empathyless personality structure. Whether it’s something to change, a specialist must decide. You should want it yourself.