BySindelle
For example, saying things like you're a smelly smoker, a glutton, a trashy special needs student, a drunken bum, a poor social idiot, a convicted criminal… All sorts of things that are meant to make you look bad!
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Loading...From a psychological perspective, is it possible to become afraid of oneself, and what are the possible causes? I'd be really interested to know if such a thing is possible.
My mother has a new partner after the divorce. They've been together for about a year. I'm not entirely happy with his traditional ways and how conservative many of his views are. I told my mother that I'd be happy to see her without her partner sometime. She said she's also happy when I'm there…
My two-year-old son won't listen to me saying no as a mother. He throws things on the floor, and I gently pinched his arm, and he said "ouch" and cried. I held him in my arms and comforted him. I didn't mean to hurt him, and I'm sorry. What is this doing to my son?…
I'm already older: I am often afraid of being too ugly I do sports, my figure is slim and well trained I avoid mirrors and don't have one where I can see my whole body If I haven't looked at myself in the mirror for a long time, I forget my figure and the feeling…
Or are you still that? I mean, along the lines of: what's next/ everything stays the same…?
You have the following options:
Fuck it when someone says that and bring back a proper spell!
Or:
instead of stinky smokers – Stop smoking
instead of devoured sack – eat less
instead of Asi – be social
instead of special pupils – follow the school
instead of drunk penner – when drunk and not like penners in the gutter
instead of poor social schmarotzer – seek work and become a millionaire
instead of pre-punished criminals – do penance, penance and seek charitable activities in the municipality XD
That was of course ironic. I’ve had to do something like that. It’s important that you really aren’t. It may be that you might get to hear something like that, because you really get out of the frame. Of course, no one should tell you anything if you don’t want to. Try to make it clear, because there’s always some depp getting some calls from the distance. These are their opinions and views. And: “whoever declares his opinion should not expect all to be of the same opinion” 😉
Also, remember your inadequacies and do not always reject everything from you if you know exactly that you do not change some of your negative qualities because you do not have any discipline, motivation or whatever.
In the end, you should discuss for yourself what your goal is in life and whether you are aware of the consequences if you remain disturbing and go your own way, which would perhaps be more negative.
Example:
If you’re overweight, would it be bad if you were going to take a walk? (Do not answer me, but only for yourself. This is just an example!! See it not as criticism, but as rhetorical, constructive questions that you should ask yourself!)))
Just do it for yourself. Not because anyone said it.
If someone has something to put on you, bring a spell back. No one is perfect and anyone can say something negative;)
“There’s a donkey sneaking the other”
Yeah, I’m fat, I can lose weight, you’re stupid, what are you doing?
Tobacco smoke is not a stench, but a special fragrance 😉 Also available as perfume;)
Unemployed are always insulted. The spell is very cheeky, but:
“Yes and now go and deserve my groschen!”
I remind them of their position and show them their limits.
So I am actually sometimes bullied/convicted by thick or unattractive people because of my body 😂 then I say something like “you can’t afford” etc. Or if some believe between us there is not citizens’ relationship but citizens’ foreigners relationship and think they have something to report to me. I remember her rank. Etc.
Then rest quickly
So if all this was said to you, then you have proved a “patient” ear. Ignore and remove the person from life. still a very clear statement without weakening any with smile etc.
In the case of business relations (although I do not…) complain to the next higher authority.
The only way I see in this case is to stay away from such people. to remove them or themselves from this environment.
And I wouldn’t have a single argument that would not make this step appear possible!!
I wouldn’t have to do with such people, minimize or break contact, if possible.
Ignore. There are just people who can only sleep well when they’ve put others down.
Stinking smoker? What is “convicted”? That’s quite the same as the facts…
Just ignore
Ignore.