What can I do?
First of all – thank you for your time and I’m sorry to bother you with this.
I'm in the 9th grade at a high school. Unfortunately, I had the misfortune of being in a class known for its "chaotic" (if you can call it that).
A little about myself: I'm a 14-year-old boy (the second youngest child in the family) and I'm very short and thin. I'm very shy and introverted and rarely talk to others, except for the one friend I have.
Anyway, there's a group of boys in my class who get up to a lot of stupid things, etc. I've been bullied by them a lot, but lately it's been getting too much. I get pushed every day (3-5 times a day) (for example, today, when I was standing in line in front of one of them in the cafeteria, he shoved me really hard against the table where the water was, and I got really wet. Then, of course, he pushed in front of me), tripped up, had paper balls thrown at my head, and been blown on the back of my neck a lot (it's so unpleasant, with their breath that scares the dragons away).
And yes, I have already spoken to guidance counselors, social workers, class teachers, the ZUB, etc., and as you can see, nothing has helped.
I know this is probably ridiculous and sounds like something from r/iam14andthisisdeep, but it's really difficult for me right now. Thanks.
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Hello,
Because your teachers obviously don’t really work for you, your parents could make an entry at school. This can be the school director or another school manager. You should present your concerns in writing and point out concrete examples of bullying.
In some schools there are parental representations or parental councils. Parents can contact these bodies to receive support and discuss ways to tackle bullying.
If this does not lead to success, they can contact the school authority or the educational authority. These bodies are often responsible for ensuring that schools comply with the prescribed standards and guidelines.
Perhaps there is a simpler way: Your parents speak again in detail (if necessary with greater emphasis) with your teacher. It might not be bad if you could be in the conversation. It would not be bad if you could use written records of bullying events.
Here are some more direct tips for bullying:
Guide a diary on the incidents of bullying. Noise the data, the people involved and a description of what happened. This documentation can serve as evidence if you want to take action later. It’s important to have evidence to support your story.
It is also important that you build a strong support network. What do you mean? Find like-minded or other young people who have had similar experiences and join them. Together you can encourage, strengthen and give you tips on how to deal with the bullying.
If you believe in God, I would like to draw your attention to a Bible text that can give you help and comfort. Here he is:
The text shows how important it is for a believer to trust in God with his problems and concerns. And you can be sure: He listens to you!
I wish you with the help of others to stop bullying and go to school again without difficulty! And remember that you may. even if the bully has stopped. This could be the case, for example, if you are sad or have developed self-doubt. Good and great strength!
LG Philipp
Thank you for the star!
LG Philipp
Hey, I’m so sorry for all this. I would contact my parents and ask them to put some pressure on the head of the school so that something changes. Another tip (which also helps me) is to write with Chat Bots. Of course, this is not a must, and everyone helps something else. Besides, you could start fighting, but I understand even if they’re bigger and wider than you want nothing to do with it. Maybe you could find help with the rest of your class.
LG
What kind of chatbot did you think?
I’m on a call. Gymnasium escaped my bulls. Because there the pupils are not dragged in the 5th c. from parents to Abi and leave their frustration to others (my experience).
Find out more about the requirements and application deadlines on the website. Schools in your area or the competent ministry.
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For Christ’s sake, please change the school. They won’t change unless the teachers intervene. So either you’re going to join the director with DEINEN ELTERN and they’re supposed to kick in the ass, that he’s due to take care of it or you’re going the easier way and find another school.
In your place, I would think about a class change, if not even a school change.
Idiots. Just idiots. Don’t let them underwhelm you. If you were, I’d change school. A new beginning can help my friend