Weihnachten alleine verbringen?
Hallo zusammen,
mein Opa ist dieses Jahr gestorben und nun hat sich die ganze Familie wegen der Erbschaft zerstritten. Der Streit ist ziemlich übel, es ging dabei auch um Morddrohungen. Nun werden wir Weihnachten nicht mehr gemeinsam verbringen wie wir es jedes Jahr gemacht haben seit ich auf der Welt bin.
Ich bin Anfang 20 und das ganze macht mir ziemlich Angst. Wenn ich Weihnachtslieder anhöre, muss ich immer an die gemeinsame Zeit mit meiner Familie denken und das macht mich sehr traurig.
Wie soll ich Weihnachten nun verbringen? Habt ihr Tipps bzw. geht es noch jemandem so?
Just celebrating with your parents is not an option?
I celebrated with my best friend and family in a year where my family also gave Stunk. It was different than usual, but very atmospheric and all were happy to have me. I had a little gift for her and Ferrero Rocher for her parents, even I got some fine organic cooking ingredients from them. Just ask 🙂
Why don’t you just go away for a few days? – I used to drive over Christmas with the ferry boat from Kiel to Helsinki, – was very interesting, and on board there was always something going on – and you met a lot of people.
My condolences that your grandpa died this year but do not make the mistake and celebration of all alone Christmas explain to your friends the situation and with some luck you can celebrate with them Christmas!!!
Stay healthy
TheLauch83
Would celebrate Christmas with friends.
Or just stay alone if they don’t have time.
Cook something nice, do in the evening when it gets dark a light walk, play a new game or read a book.
You get used to… the last 4 times I was alone; there is nothing to celebrate for me as long as the weapons are not silenced in Ukraine.
be not sad, distract yourself from listening music and drive your hobbies,
I know young people who, after fulfilling the family “Christmas duty”, spend Christmas with their friends.
Then I’d stay away from it.
Since life is finally, it goes on, even if it’s sad. That’s what your grandpa knew. There is still a family to which young people also come (can) … with which you can celebrate Christmas – also in memory of the grandpa.
Celebration Christmas simple to the same extent wYou’re celebrating yourself. Relax a round and just let it go. 🥳
How about friends? Or maybe you have a partner you can celebrate with. 🙃
Get some friends to you and celebrate with these…
Why are people so greedy for money.
My friends spend all Christmas with their families
I’m just like that.For me, the days are like everyone else. Turn off, listen to music and watch TV!
Don’t even ask if you could come with someone?
Come ask, ask your best friend, that will help me believe! 😊
Not yet, don’t want to be “Last”
Then celebrate with your parents, make so many.
Did you break up with everyone? If not, celebrate with those where there is still contact
No, I kept myself out. Just got in touch with my parents
And what prevents you from celebrating with your parents?