Switching from pill to condom?
Hello, I want to stop taking the pill due to too many side effects. On top of that, we only see each other on weekends and therefore only have sex then (the pill isn't worth it, is it? For two sex sessions a week).
However, I'm worried about my boyfriend (stupid, I know).
I'm afraid that he won't feel much with a condom and will therefore enjoy the sex less (since he already has to work really hard to make me come during sex… I'm worried about how it will be with a condom).
He's used to sex without a condom, should I be worried about that or will I get used to it/feel more over time?
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Hello, the pill is safer than the condom, often ensures a reasonable skin appearance and makes our monthly bleeding more predictable and bearable. :
Personally, I often have changing sexual intercourse and therefore know that the use of condoms in a variety of men is not exactly high in the course. Once they feel “gumened” obviously too little, but often they have problems with condoms to keep their stiffening to the end. Such a thing is really strenuous and also unsightly if, as you say, you already have certain difficulties in getting up to the top of traffic.
You should think about it and talk to your friend. If your friend refuses a condom use partout, he will have his reasons. If you were, I’d rather stay with the pill. – Best regards, Imke =)
That wasn’t my question whether I’m staying with pille or not. I almost want to commit suicide and no man in the world is worth it.
>>I almost want to commit suicide and no man in the world is worth it. < <
That you so strong suffering from the pill, was not evident from your question for me. If this is really so dramatic with you, then of course away with the pill, and indeed quite fast!
There are ultra thin condoms made of PU and AT10, i.e. “001”, because the difference is not noticeable.
Alternatively, he can also prevent:
For a year and a half, I have been using the “thermal prevention for the man”, with Andro-switch / slip-chauffant.
Approval study on the ring is still running until 2027. The studies on the slip (since the 80s) show a Pearl index 0.5.
You can already buy the ring (also make yourself), currently there are around 20k users.
There are many different condoms, trying something around.
Maybe it feels uninhabited for him first, but it’s okay.
The charm on the acorn is of course different – I come heavier but for that I have much longer sex:-) – the splashing directly is naturally very beautiful – have tried many different condoms until I have found the correct size / shape.
You want to drop the pill because you have side effects.
That’s your choice for you and you should stay with it.
That’s his problem, but there’s a thousand men who’ll keep up with condoms.
So your friend will get used to it, get used to it. What others can do will work with him.
So you should think of yourself, it’s your health.
He’s about reconciliation and another feeling.
So what is more important?
You!
No, it’s actually much more annoying to pull the condom on it than to feel nothing at only 50 micrometers wall thickness.
LG Finn