What should one do?
When I was about 9 years old, my parents separated without us being married. During those years I argued a lot with my mother. She insulted me and hit me once, threw things at me and even broke the television. She also broke a lot of my things and now, at the age of 14, I've had enough. I want to move in with my father. My father doesn't mind, but my mother, who has sole custody, doesn't want me to move in with my father. What now? Should I go to youth welfare office? And if it goes to family court, how much will it cost?
Talk to the youth office. Children of your age have a right to speak. That you live with your father does not mean that your mother has to give up the only custody.
Talk to your father. He can apply for the common custody of the Jugenamt.
Apply, but yes my mother is against it and it will come to the family court and there will be high costs for it my father cannot be good German
Your father can take a lawyer and you can do so many Germans that you can translate?
You already have a right to speak with 14 and the court will then decide whether your parents will have a common custody.
Your mother will have her reasons and your parents were not married.
if your mother is so righteous against common, your father must complain. if he has not received enough, he may apply for procedural aid and provide counselling for the lawyer for family law.
There is a cost-of-process aid for low earners.
You should be worth your father…
He is not a coward he has the money only he is not to pay for it because it will cost around 1000 euros
if your mother’s alone has sorrow, she’ll be where you live. if your father sees it differently, he has to complain on common sorjust and in the next quarrel that you move.