What do you do when someone constantly doesn't let you speak?
Hello everyone,
I've been at my new job for 5 months (horrible job, I regret the change). I have a colleague who is over 60 (I'm 23) who keeps trying to put me down (there are five people in the office including the boss, so everything you say can be heard by everyone). She never lets me finish, really never! You hear maybe two sentences out of me a day because she never lets me finish. As soon as I ask a question, she interrupts me and becomes rude and answers a question I never asked. Then I stay calm and say that's not what I wanted to ask. Do you interrupt me?
No, I don’t call it a stand Would think there would be a bit of space
I just keep talking and either my counterpart realizes himself that he talks and stops or he keeps talking, but I don’t understand what he says, because I’m talking.
At some point, I’m sick of it and I’m gonna break the contact.
I’m counting the days before I’m out of here just can’t stop
I’ll wait for the day my own mother finally puts this inconsistency. But with far over 70 I see a little chance of change with her. So I’d rather reduce the visits to her for the first time.
This is also intrafamiliär really exhausting and unpleasant.
Especially since even your own problems with increasing age do not run past Teflon in the way.
As long as she has her new boyfriend, I don’t really see it critical. Otherwise she still knows the contacts with me and my siblings.
But sometimes the thickest patience thread is at the end of a person who just wants to talk about himself and again extremely dominantly.
Don’t worry, I’ll leave her as far as I can’t completely fail if she really needs help.
I’m still glad she’s still here and she seems to be quite good in her cemetery.
That’s hard! Sometimes distance helps temporary! All good
Would the person address it directly
Make respect and say loud but politely that you want to speak to the end.
Sometimes I’m rude and don’t let her talk and say something she doesn’t want to hear.
I’d smile right in between and ask if you can talk right now. You finally let the others talk