What does it mean when many people tell you to become more confident?

It's starting to get on my nerves because I meet new people and at some point someone always tells me I should be more confident.

I always justify myself and can't let this sit… (I'm a man)

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mjutu
5 months ago

What exactly can you not sit on you? Do you think a) that you have little self-confidence, or b) that you don’t need it anymore?

A self-confident reaction would be: “I get clear with my self-confidence. That’s why I’m surprised you got theories. Do they bring you something?”

To justify yourself and to be of the opinion that you would let something sit on you is a sign of low self-confidence. So you confirm the people.

How is it? What is your degree of self-confidence? Do you rather work improperly or non-authentic?

adelaide196970
5 months ago

You look too scared or you keep asking others for advice.

mjutu
5 months ago
Reply to  DummAberClever

Swearing is exactly the wrong one.

“Self-consciousness” means that you consciously care about how you are. To do as if you were different, people get up fast.

That is, if you’re afraid, you’re afraid. Be careful, take the fear seriously.

You need not to do what fear tells you! You also go with fear to the dentist and also speak with fear to women. You’ll be allowed to have emotions again.

Be yourself. Don’t hide. Go around with it clearly and openly. If it fits, respond to “you need more self-confidence” with:

I know. This is one of my social fears. I’m working on it, but I’m the way I am. I’d be happy to see you with me.

You don’t get more self-confidence by getting different. On the contrary.