Why do we constantly take precautions?
My father had seven packs of cigarettes delivered from the tobacco shop here. They're lying on the table on the terrace, where he smokes constantly. Along with three used ashtrays.
There are currently 3 cases of 20 bottles in the cellar.
Once the last crate is opened, more are bought the next day, and several more crates of beer are purchased. The €10 or €11 offer also fills the entire cellar as a precaution.
I completely understand that in other cases – if it were about retirement or good food.
However, how anyone can budget for such quantities of beer and cigarettes is beyond me. He consumes them all for himself.
He smokes 2.5 crates a week, but two crates are already too little. Plus a pack of cigarettes a day.
He also plans to not buy anything else because he hardly drinks any water anymore, and he buys very little food because he doesn't eat much either.
I buy this for my mother and myself. Mom doesn't cook for him anymore because he doesn't want food.
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Your father’s dependent. From alcohol and cigarettes. It’s for him the most important things he needs for survival. He could give up everything else in case of emergency, but not those things.
Don’t worry, they could be all or not available, he buys them on stock. That gives him a sense of security.
As I guess, he does not intend to change his consumption. He’s very deep in it and probably wouldn’t make it alone.
If he goes on, he’ll get serious health problems at some point.
For your mother and you, this is definitely not a nice living together.
Without insight, you can’t treat. It’s very sad when someone breaks up like that. But in the end, you have to protect yourself so that you don’t break through the addiction. Maybe tell him this in this clarity in a quiet moment.
He clearly has a problem and is wrong with his priorities, especially his family, it is really wrong
Why are you planning this and buying it in these quantities?
That means for me. He wants to go on and change nix.
You also go shopping and plan what you need before and what you need
Yeah, that’s what I see. He’s planning this in the crowds because he doesn’t want him to ever stand there without the stuff.
That’s really sad.
Your two main topics: your father’s beer and your buddy’s car rides… won’t that be boring?!
You’re 26…something from your life… at the age I had 2 children and a good job…🤷
I don’t know. I don’t know. Once a month.
If I look at yours, I understand why he drinks. What if you let the others be like. Take care of what you do yourself.
You’ve already got some tips because you’re constantly writing this thing without feedback….it’s time to take the tips instead of always writing the same thing.
It is unintentional and even plans far in advance, and buys its addictions in large quantities.
That’s enough for the whole week.
Are you self-sighted?
Gorkon193:Thank you!🙏
It’s called addiction.