Why do I want my partner to dictate everything to me? And "protect" me from others, and why do I crave rules so much?

Could it be because my parents never protected me from others and never gave me any rules?

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LetMeAskYou112
2 years ago

Better. You’re afraid to take responsibility for your actions. This is the case with many people, but it is mostly my case with young women.

As long as someone tells you how to do it, you don’t have to stand straight when something goes wrong. You can always justify yourself with something without having made the fault of yourself.

Behavior is often in education. Parents do not trust the child and talk to him to be always perfect, beautiful and polite (or do not make clear that this is not necessary).

LetMeAskYou112
2 years ago
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Not really. This is typical drawer memory of parents. In the book “Mutig, not perfect” the author is quite detailed on the topic. There is a technical term for the failure of parents as far as I do not know.

justasking717
2 years ago

Maybe because you don’t get your life on your own, so you think you need someone to discipline you?

LukiDukiSchmuki
2 years ago

Because you obviously don’t have your own string values and standards to which you trade, so you need them from outside