Warum ist meine Klasse so?

Hello,

Unfortunately, people everywhere (whether in school or elsewhere) have to do with people who have little thought about the feelings of others. They are far from putting themselves in the position of the other and do not wonder how much their words and deeds can hurt another. Yes, Why? are there people who shut down and neglect others?

There are various reasons. For example, it has happened to some earlier. Sometimes they are bad modelsthat someone had at home. In addition, own uncertainty or Minority complex behind it.

Whoever treats others humiliating plays the strong to distract from his own insecurity.It is also important to know who ones who like to shut down others as victims.

The ideal victim is someone who little friends and usually standing alone. Also, different appearance, such as the skin color, religion, nationality (as in your case) or disability provide a discriminatory behaviour.

You will quickly become a victim even if you little self-confidence has. The perpetrator is quite easy with such people, as they usually do not resist. But now to the most important point: what can you do to get out of the sacrificial role? Here are some Strategieswho could help you:

Tests left to stay. Those who remain calm and calm take the wind out of the sails. He no longer offers him an attack area, as his harassments lead to the void.

So if one shows his feelings openly to the other, one is similarly unprotected, as in ancient times a city without walls – a light prey for every enemy. However, keeps his feelings, it is equally unacceptable for the attacker. Of course, this is easier than it is and requires a lot of self-control.

Get the retreatwhen it gets dangerous. It is always the best to avoid situations and places where the attacker has an easy game. This is not the motto “The attack is the best defense” but the retreat. This has nothing to do with cowardice, but rather with wisdom.

Sometimes it is not possible to avoid confronting the hostile-minded person and telling him with a firm voice that you don’t like his behavior at all, that it is not funny and it hurts one. However, it is very important not to be challenged or offensive.

Search in any case Talk with a responsible adult! It would be good to explain exactly your situation and ask him for support. When it comes to stubborn insults and the like, you shouldn’t hesitate, quickly Help and support to get. You’re probably not going to deal with the situation alone.

Those who have become victims of discriminatory behaviour may also comfort the following thoughts: God understands exactly what people are going through, who are treated badly and they are not indifferent to him. I found a text of the Bible particularly dreadful, which very emotionally describes that God will take care of the disadvantaged and weak:

“For he will free the poor, who calls for help, even the depressed and anyone who has no helper. He will be sorry for the wrestling and the poor, and the souls of the poor will be saved. From depression and violence, he will redeem her soul, and her blood will be precious in his eyes “(Psalm 72:12-14).

This promise also includes those who are mistreated by others in one way or another. I have also mentioned the Bible because it is in times of emergency lots of comfort and helpful advice can give. It also shows that the time will come when there will be no more people who discriminate against others and talk badly about them.

I wish that you will be able to better defend yourself against the other’s attacks in the future without having a thought of revenge. Just try as well as you can to implement the above advice. They have helped many people to put an end to it or at least to deal with it better. Good and great success!

LG Philipp