Warum ist aufgeben so verpönt?
Aufgeben, schon alleine das Wort ist ja sehr verpönt, aber warum?
Wieso soll ich immer wider kämpfen wenn ich eh nie etwas erreichen kann und sowieso auf die Schnauze fliege?
Wieso nicht akzeptieren dass, mein Leben einfach gelaufen ist und ich niemals viel erreichen kann?
Nie gesund sein werde und erwerbsfähig?
Nie ein partner haben werde.
Who gives up has lost. It is the individual decision what the persons concerned want.
But there are people who have no chances
It has been abandoned because certain social norms are often overly simplified (which is also pertinent).
On the other hand, there are also opposite norms such as “the smarter gives after” or “only a horn ox always wants with the head through the wall” etc.
In general, a negative attitude to giving up is useful, however, since this is considered to be too positive or equivalent as justification for strong avoidance behavior or learned helplessness and/or It can serve hopelessness.
In addition, the question of whether a goal can be reached at all is not absolutely crucial – finally, our life is due to its unavoidable endurance and for itself Absurd – see also, albert Camus: “The Myth of Sisyphos”
When you give up your chances are set to 0. If you fight, there is at least the smallest hope. So what sounds better? No chance or at least some hope?
I never had chances
I don’t know your problem, so it’s hard to guess for me