Wärt ihr sauer deswegen?
Wärt ihr sauer wenn euer Freund sagt er ruft später an, also nicht ihr sollt anrufen sondern er, da er Besuch hat
er hat Besuch seit mehreren Wochen von Familie. Wir sehen uns trotzdem zwischendurch da sie manchmal weg sind paar Stunden zb vorletzte Woche zweimal. Letzte Woche leider nicht.
Maybe disappointed, but he has the right to spend time with his family. You can talk to him 🙂
But why does he not want to call myself
Because he might just do something with his family and call you when he’s alone and has time.
I’m just saying something. Will be happy
My friend told his family about me and 2-3 weeks posting his ex fiancé simply his name in her organic with heart. She’s his cousin, too. Earlier than they were together, she had only one ring in it or a nice word with ring. He has deleted insta few days before
They still don’t go anywhere. They used to follow. The siblings of her are also unfriended with my friend
How do you feel? I don’t need to worry
I don’t know if I can really help you
Can I ask another question?
But what does it look like?
Just ask him. Even if you tell me, I can’t judge everything.
Thank you.
My friend has been visiting relatives for several weeks. I don’t think that’s bad, we still see each other as they’re sometimes gone for a few hours.
he always answered my calls. But he said on Wednesday he’ll call me later, so I shouldn’t call for a visit. He also told me if we couldn’t see Friday there on Wednesdays. He suggested that by himself after I asked if he could do Wednesday.
Called Friday. He then called back Saturday and asked why I called despite that he told me he had visit.(He wasn’t mad at all talking normal) He also meant he’ll call me if he can. It’s nice. He finally asked where I am
because sooner when I have built crap and he separates I went after him, fear that this might be a tactics
Try to get rid of my friend
yes
Thank you so much
Why would you be mad? It’s just kindergarten. Anyone who gets so mad about something completely normal and reasonable is not able to lead a relationship or even just a friendship and should work urgently first.
But before that he had no problem when I called during visit
What is very rude of you. That he doesn’t want it anymore is completely normal.
It’s okay for me. As long as he can live with the fact that I may not get involved when he calls, because of course I do not work.
How would you find it?
Either that’s okay for you – then don’t make unnecessary drama – or it’s not okay for you, then explain to him what you want and make compromises.
He told me he’ll call if he can
If he has a visit for several weeks, you should be able to make up fixed times to make calls.
So I mean it would be rude to call from me while he has visit even if he has several weeks visit
should I wait until he does? Zb he called himself
Because he has a visit. And then he should deal with the visit, not with you.
Imagine you’ve got a date and he’s just hanging on the phone all the time, do you think that’s nice? You can stay at home. So leave him alone when he’s spending some time. He doesn’t exist alone to give you pleasure, that should be clear to you.
Why is it rude when I call?
Well, I think it’s funny that you can rarely see yourself because your family is here. Doesn’t he want you to meet her? And can’t you see yourself?
I wouldn’t be mad.
Why?
Are you mad at him now, or the family?