Wann ist es am besten für die Bezeihung ein Kind zu bekommen?
Wenn es super läuft und man sehr glücklich ist. Es war ein Unfall aber durchaus gewollt. Ist es am besten für eine langfristig funktuionierende Beziehung wenn man eher am Anfan steht (so 1-2 Jahre Bezeihung) und verliebt ist und die Beziehung noch keine Tiefen und Risse erlebt hat oder eher wenn man 3 oder sogar 5 Jahre oder soga länger sich kennt. Man ist evtl nicht mehr ganz auf Wolke 7, hatte schon Herausfoderungen gemeistert, aber die Beziehung ist vielleicht nicht mehr so blunerant..wann wird die Beziehung am ehesten ein Kind gut meistern. Denn für viele ist die erste Zeit mt einem Kind zwar wunderschön aber auch ekne riesengroße herausforderung..
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I know couples who have witnessed a child at nem ONS and are good parents and couples who thought after 6 years, a child could give a new meaning to the relationship life and then have separated. You can already say that if a relationship is already at the end and you fight a lot, then a child makes the problems rather bigger. Because as a mom, I can assure you, with a child, you often fight for the children.
But children are worth it and it’s the worst in the world to have a little “you”.
Both should feel ready for this. Whether 20 or 40. Whether 2 years or 10 years together
If both feel ready to put children on the world. Being clear that children are people who are also difficult and not just cute and sweet. If you are stuck in life with both legs and the little one can offer a good life.
To establish a duration of the relationship is difficult. Because it’s different for everyone. Some make it another 12 months.
More important than the time of being together is the economic and spatial situation of the couple.
A child costs up to his 18th birthday approx. € 148,000.
Do you mean… how does it look professional – can the couple afford a child or must the state ran with money and the company with food from the table and dressing room?
Is it to be seen that the child has to give up a lot (yes, a child needs too much love, but love does not fill the stomach)?
Then couples can also be 10 years together and it is not the right time for a child.
Some are already safe even after three years, while others take eight years, it is certainly not possible to set a specific time.
But I think that the first great fallacy should be gone, one has been through one or two rather difficult moments together, but one has still remained together and one is in a rather long-term and happy relationship.
The family foundation is like the level-up. I think this is the best situation.
You should always wait until you get out of the “banged phase”. after 1 to 2 years, this should be the case. If something happens earlier, it doesn’t necessarily mean there are problems.
Lg, Nicki
There’s never the perfect time for a child.
you should have experienced high and deep
I do not think the right time
In my opinion, the most important thing about this topic is that you really decide for a child and you don’t just get it because “you just do that.” So, if there is really a child’s desire, one has also thought the consequences of this decision on a rational-scientific level and is willing to wear it and one really wants one despite all the difficulties and disadvantages that a child simply means rationally for life.
With regard to the couple relationship, one should also make oneself aware that a child cannot save an already cracked relationship – quite the contrary! A child is exhausting, resourceful and potentially burdensome for couple relationship. A challenge that both must master together. And the existing problems and differences of opinion are reinforced rather than resolved…
So it really does not depend on the duration of the relationship, but rather on whether one has already found good compromises, solutions and ways of living together in the associated areas and is therefore happy and satisfied as a couple. For this, however, it is necessary for one or the other year, since at the beginning the pink-red glasses hide all the problems and differences and some of these points can only be noticed if you have gone through life together with its heights and depths for a while.
Thank you for your answer! It sounds very good to understand. 🙂 but if it is an accident and you are looking forward to it? Then you couldn’t think that way. Despite the joy, one wanted to wait a few more years and thinks now, but then one pulls it through. The relationship is super good..
Well, in this situation, it should be taken into account that the relationship within the framework of this challenge, which is at stake, can fail – does not have to, but can. And then you should be aware of what it can have for consequences if you have to raise a child separately alive. And also that this child must not be the suffering person in separation! Promise that no matter what happens in the couple relationship, one has the responsibility and obligation to pull for the child beyond a separation as parents together on a strand, while overlooking any injuries around the separation and continuing to ensure that the child can have a good, healthy relationship with both parents!
I think I have explained in detail what factors I believe are crucial in order for a relationship to survive the challenge of a common child and what importance I attach to the duration of a relationship. Whether or not DEINE’s relationship will endure this experiment, you have to assess SELF! Finally, do you live in this relationship, not me, or ?
But do you think a separation due to the situation is more likely than others? Because there are also many of the 5 years waiting to conjure the wish child and still divorce or separate… are the possibilities that it doesn’t work as big?
Hello!
We were together as a couple of six years. But before learning to know, it was clear that there was a general desire for children.
Our 3 were all planned children. Nevertheless, there is no ideal time – especially at the first child. We were just overwhelmed and it was really crass 😂. After that everything relaxes.
It’s important that you keep together as a couple…
Greetings, Christoph 🖖💨
I have my first in 30 days I know exactly what comes to us, we already bought a big house and everything we need… and still the stomach fluffs me every day.
This is very different, it depends on many factors.
We now get our daughter after 10 years of relationship and 2 years of marriage in early March. I think you should be very sure to stay together for decades before you get a child together.
Don’t, never children
Then when the couple gets rid of it
The relationship or marriage should be able to cope with everyday stress, even under pressure and with problems. Of course, the financial should also be well thought out. All this is not dependent on a period, either it works or not. In today’s time, I would no longer want to put a child in the world if I read what’s going on in schools and how parents have to scrape off to somehow get over the rounds. It’s not a good time for families.
This question cannot really be answered. There are always better or worse times to get a child.
AstridThePu
You wanted an accident?