Verletzung der elterlichen Aufsichtspflicht?
Mein Partner hat 3 Kinder mit seiner Ex Frau . 6j junge 8 j Mädchen und 11j junge .
sie ist ins auslandgefahren in den Urlaub (Aserbaijan) über eine Woche Kinder zu Hause gelassen sie haben Schule . Gelegentlich kommt Nachbarin schaut nach ihnen und bringt die Kinder abends ins Bett geht jedoch geht soe nach Hause wen die Kinder schlafen . Den Kinder hat sie gesagt es darf keiner wissen das sie weggefahren ist . Verletzung ihrer Aufsichtspflicht als Mutter ?
The children are too young to be alone for a whole week.
The question is just what is tactical wise to do:
Thank you for your ideas.
I have to make one thing clear, the children have not got any trouble for that they didn’t tell us. What can happen and the mom isn’t here!
The mother doesn’t work she’s getting citizen money. She’s spending several times in the year whether Dubai is Istanbul or just several times a year after Baku (Aserbeijan) everything without the children! The children don’t give us! She’s afraid that she’ll be taken away from her. In the therapy with my partner she said herself when you get the kids then I have to work and pay you maintenance that is not possible!
my next question is when can children decide where to live?
3 children 15 j 14j and 11j the place in the house we would have for the children!
Why do you accept that she is illegally receiving civil money? She lives well at the expense of the public and is not even ready to fulfil her duties as a mother.
If your partner and you are on a run, the same thing I want, I see good opportunities that the children can live with you in the future.
What are you gonna do with this woman? That’s totally wrong.
The situation is already past. What irritates me that the Elf-year-old didn’t take the phone call to ask his father for help. There is a lot of confidence here.
Those who have supplied the children in time with food and food are also not important to you. That the children were alone overnight is the least evil.
I’d try to do what’s best for the kids.
https://www.arag.de/rechtsschutzversicherung/familierechtsschutz/attendance supervision-eltern/
The mother knows she can’t do what she’s doing. If there’s something going on despite the neighbor, she’ll get really trouble.
I find very good what SKR 1997 says.
She should have informed the father, and he would have to take responsibility. I assume that he also has the right of custody (and duty)
Honestly, if the new partner of the father of the children asks such questions, I feel guided by the baldness.
After my experience, is usually the new partner of the arsonists
Why doesn’t the father ask? Why are you mixing?
Can it be that the children shouldn’t say anything about you.?
When the nice neighbor wakes up the children in the morning, makes them breakfast, the children then go to school and take home at lunch or in the evening after the hort, make dinner, bring the children to bed and is reachable at night and the proximity that gives up, this goes.
Otherwise, I would like to join @SkR1997.
what’s on you. the children were supplied and there was someone who looked at the children and was close. that is no problem at all
Limit, completely alone, children of age would be too young. But if the neighbor looks over regularly, I don’t think it’s so bad now.
I would report this to the Youth Office – this mother is irresponsible!
And I’d report to the job center that she seems to be able to make a long journey abroad…
Above all, the father should apply for sole custody and take care of himself.
Yeah.
And if the father knows and doesn’t do anything, it’s probably the same for him.
We didn’t know it when the children came to us on our weekend.
Then it doesn’t even happen because he didn’t know about it. That’s why I wrote “where: the father knows about it.”
Your partner as a father could look at the right.
we only experienced it when we picked up the children for our weekend. Before we knew nothing about it. The children would have been able to us too.