I lied about contraception and am now pregnant. Is that a crime?
Hello,
please no accusations.
I can't use hormonal contraception for health reasons. And to be honest, I assumed I couldn't get pregnant. I didn't use contraception for seven years in my last relationship, and nothing ever happened. I assumed it just wouldn't work for me.
Well… I was seeing someone.
Afterwards he said, “You’re using contraception, right?” For whatever reason, I answered yes and that I was using the coil for contraception.
Which of course isn't true.
But I'm now 11 weeks pregnant, and I want to keep the baby.
Have I committed a crime by doing this?
Can I go to jail for this?
I feel really bad! I don't even know why I lied.
And I absolutely didn't expect to get pregnant!
That's no excuse, but I can't explain it any other way.
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The only one you could expect is the man, whether he is happy or not, you have to ask him. If you want to keep the child, you need to set up a life as a single mother if you don’t want to know.
Criminal is nothing of it, everything has happened in agreement, and you have misunderstood that nothing can happen.
But apparently it was your ex in the 7 years before that which was infertile. You can always talk about contraception, even a spiral is not completely safe.
Was that the only time you had sex?
If he asks for contraception, it doesn’t make any difference whether you say yes or no.
But after that, she had sex more often and he was let by you in believe that you would prevent or prevent. There is also a correct method of prevention. Then you can talk more morally about what you raped him.
Strabar is nothing about it. But you can assume that if you get out of this and you don’t want to get out of it, you’ll be alone and you may sue the maintenance.
To lie that you prevent, even though you don’t do it, it’s just under all chewing. Whether you have believed that you are infertile or not is irrelevant. If he hadn’t known that to her, and if he had received the risk, he would have been guilty.
We had something together on the following day. So a total of 2x. It was one-of-a-kind. 😳
Can I also be accused of rape? 😧
Not that I know. That’s why I said moral. Because in legal matters, the whole thing is a little stricter.
Is that really when the commitment to the 2. Once based on a lie? Even if he should have asked before the first time. He still shows that he is interested in contraception. And maybe he wouldn’t have slept with you for a second time if there was no contraception.
That’s a little bit as if you settle for condom use and then the man comes to the idea to take off the condom in the middle of it.
No
No
But honestly, you’re not 16 anymore! A little more responsibility for you would be appropriate. If you have sex with someone who is not the fixed partner, you take a condom! And there is no discussion about it. There are all kinds of marvellous diseases massively on the rise of the last few years. Among other things, because of careless people like you.
But you both seem to be of the naive strain when he asked the question first HINTERHER anyway.
In principle, a man must also take care of the prevention and cannot rely on such a statement in good faith. In fact, this is not criminal.
But what can be good : That he cannot be used for the maintenance of the child (maintainability to the child exists, or so)
EDIT: Wait a minute he asked HINTERHER? Then my lower heel has finished. Idiot.
Precipitations on the use of contraceptives or their own fertility are not punishable.
https://kripoz.de/2018/05/16/zur-strafbaren-von-taeuschungen-im-sexualstrafrecht/#:~:text=T%C3%A4uschungen%20%C3%BCber%20the%20Use%20of,not%20%20ofthe%20successful%20
In addition, this has been done when he asks “behind”.
Happy for you!
Should I tell the father I lied about?
Or let it stand like that.
I want to play with open cards.
I wouldn’t start a big discussion, that doesn’t change the result – it’s how it is.
He didn’t care about contraception and you didn’t.
Dear Susi, if everything is as true as you describe it, you don’t have to blame yourself.
The only thing that can happen: The producer could provisionally refuse the recognition of his paternity and possibly attempt to deny a maintenance claim. I guess he has to pay for the child.
After that, his question would have been answered too late anyway.
Well, he asked for it – it was too late anyway. You lied to him and you’re gonna have to explain it.
Otherwise, I wonder how to “start” not to get pregnant? That’s what you’re gonna do. Apparently the problem wasn’t with you, but with your ex. From this there are also numerous very reliable and hormone-free contraception methods, so it is irrelevant whether you are carrying hormones or not.
Either way – you didn’t make yourself punishable, of course, but you didn’t stick to fame when you “just risked” it.
Since you want to keep the child, it would be very slow to let the father get the info and look forward.
Good luck!
No, it’s not criminal. Unless he could prove badly that you said something, even if it were punishable.
That’s why boys are advised to prevent themselves if they want to go safe.
To your situation: That your ex is infertile and you didn’t get pregnant was never an option for you?
1. You didn’t make you criminal,
Two. No one can bring you to a court or prison,
But why did you even lie? After sex ask for contraception by the sex partner is already naive! If I don’t want to testify to a child, I’ll take a rubber or let me sterilize.
I think it’s good that you want the child.
No.
Aside from that:
My sympathy with him also keeps STARK within limits.
It doesn’t matter if he only sleeps with you, and then if you’re not afraid, there’s nothing to change, whether you’re “yes”, “no”, “maybe” or “don’t know”.
I would only tell him soon because he becomes a father;-)
Wish you good pregnancy 🙂
Hello
Why? You had both sex. You know what can happen in sex?
Same debt
Congratulations and all the good to you
LG
It’s bad luck for the man who’s relying on your statement.
Apart from this, however, an unwanted pregnancy can also occur despite prevention.
It is your decision to keep child (or not).
The man still has to pay maintenance for the child.
Since he has dispensed with the prevention and, according to DEM SEX, asked if it is prevented, he has at most reluctantly relied on it.
I admit, I have read (as well as LePetitGateau, s.o.) the “behind” only later.
So was not only “lucky” but above all “mighty stupid”.
🙂
👍
Asking later is a little late.
He himself should have thought about it before
Ne the man is responsible for contraception
but he can take a lawyer to pay no maintenance
but it is difficult to prove whether you have really said yes or not
have you told him?
I also read the little sentence: But they slept together and only after that he asked for it…so in the stupid case, he may have to pay maintenance for their failures.
I just saw
you are right
Then there are other methods. And you realize that much more hormones are released during pregnancy, right?
Why? It’s not just intelligent to take it off.
Because he asked HINTERHER, no. You were both extremely stupid and negligent.
No. You don’t get to jail for that.
Be so irresponsible and then want to raise a child… it won’t be easy.
Thank you for the, of course, unpredictable answer.
But this decision I made at the moment does not say anything about how I will be a mother.
And raising a child is never just no matter what way it was born.
You live for years in a massively negligent way, how can your personality not affect your attitude and your decisions on education?
Not everyone wants to get hormonal in pill form because there can also be side effects.
As I said, not only does the pill exist.
No, but here’s what I’m saying because of my decision a few weeks ago, I’m not a good mother.
And I wanted to contradict that.
I can take responsibility. Even though I did not make a “responsible” decision at this moment.
You just assumed you couldn’t get pregnant. Obviously without asking the FA.
Of course, contraception is not just a matter of women. Does anyone say that?
I don’t live for years negligent.
Until recently I was in a solid monogamous relationship for 7 years. And he knew I didn’t use contraception. And when it was about contraception, he had to take care of it. It’s not just the woman’s thing. I’m regularly a female doctor. Where’s the negligence?
I recently slept with the first man after my relationship. That I didn’t prevent was negligent and naive. Maybe.
But that doesn’t make me a bad person or mother!
You can only make an opinion about me at the moment. Not who I really am.
You didn’t do anything wrong. He owes himself.