Father only sees son occasionally. How should he raise him?
Hello forum members, I have a question and am asking for your help. I have a friend who has a son and is currently separated from his wife. He sees his son every now and then and wants to be very kind to him and allow him to do anything he wants, just so his son feels comfortable with him. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? I say be strict, and he says he doesn't see him often… I hope you understand me and can give me some advice.
Thank you
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Yes, unfortunately, it is often so that after a break the man becomes a fun-papa.
It is said to the education in German.
Because father sometimes fear that the kids don’t want to come anymore.
Your acquaintance will get mighty problems with the child’s mother if he continues so
Because despite separation one is still parents and should pull together on a string
I can’t remember very well how my kids were after Papa WE…. I needed two weeks to get her back on you and then the shit went off the front again
That doesn’t need a person and your acquaintance makes it very easy!
Thank you very much
It is understandable that he wants to make the few times beautiful, but I find that as everywhere there is a rule that you have to adhere to.
That’s how we handle it with my husband’s daughter.
Thank you very much
It is important that parents agree on education, even if they are separated or divorced.
What your acquaintance does is to put his son against his mother (with Dad I can do everything) and the mother has to iron it out again and is the “bad”.
So he only reaches the mother at some point will try to get the only right of custody, since the father is more likely to harm the child with his kind.
Unfortunately, the sole custody right does not exclude the right of handling…
You’re right, but children need clear rules and limits.
It’s never good if parents use a child to harm the partner, maybe the mother could make it that the right to handle is severely restricted.
Wow very nice.
What this father does is not hebut Verificationpull!
This is the stupidest thing the father can do!
A child needs spiritual orientation and clear rules!
If he’s messing up, the father should tell him why it’s not.
Nor does no child do well when parents bual for his favor. In this way it develops a medical character and will often tick in later life.
Apart from the fact that the mother has more to fight with the spoiled boy – and that is unfair. In addition, at the latest in puberty, the boy loses the respect for such a submissive disease of father…
If the father wants a good relationship with his son, he should actively do something with him – excursions to make what to make together, let dragons rise, which is fun for the boy. This creates beautiful common memories that connect.
Wow thank you for your very good answer
– as a teacher, you know something like that…