Father cheats on mother, maybe what to do?

I've long suspected that my father is cheating on my mother. They argue a lot, too. I'm being completely open and honest. I even looked at his phone once, and there were some really strange apps on it that were probably dating platforms. I couldn't find out anything more about the apps because my father came downstairs and I had to put them away. Can someone help me? Should I tell my mother? Should I confront my father about this?

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isilang
1 year ago

You’re the child and you have a suspicion. Yeah, it’s not okay for you to sniff your father’s cell phone…

I see this in a different way than the majority – you are trapped in a conflict of conscience with your feeling or your temper. You mean to keep a secret that – your mother would know – would break her heart. You can’t face your mother anymore because you know something she should know. Besides, the thought that she could be abandoned by your father will hurt you.

As a child, of course, you have the right to confront your father. I would have done it if my suspicion moments had hardened so much.

If your father’s cheating on your mother, he’s supposed to know that he flew. And he is to understand that not only his wife, but also his child, he goes behind, hurts and falls into a conflict of conscience.

As a family father, it’s not just his own business.

But don’t confront your mother. There have been suspicions that have not yet been proven. And even if the situation is clear, your father should make a table with your mother. That would really be his job.

Kosmike
1 year ago
Reply to  isilang

very good answer

isilang
1 year ago
Reply to  Kosmike

šŸŖ·

MrSlowhand129
1 year ago

Please, hold out. It’s not your construction site. You can quickly get between the fronts.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago
Reply to  MrSlowhand129

That’s stupid. Even a child can suffer severely from such things.

MrSlowhand129
1 year ago
Reply to  MissGeschick93

Yes, I see it, but it’s not up to a child to solve it.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

I guess every child will take it differently.

atoparty
1 year ago

he does nothing bad about it

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Yes, the child shouldn’t get anything about it, but in some cases it does. And if he goes strange, he does something bad to his partner as well as to his children.

atoparty
1 year ago

he does nothing wrong with the child and there are no secrets. it just doesn’t matter.

anonym08158
1 year ago

achso

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

You say the mother is grown-up enough to see if the man goes strange. Everyone can be deceived, that has neither to do with age nor with intelligence. I just wanted to say that.

anonym08158
1 year ago

Certainly, but I did not make this statement.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Experience and exchange with others. About manipulative people and co lets sure but read a lot if you are looking for it.

anonym08158
1 year ago

Where did you read that?

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Yes it has something to do with your statement, many people are cheated and you don’t get behind.

anonym08158
1 year ago

I don’t think it’s necessary to control his partner in order to establish a change in nature, but it’s not a matter of question anymore.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Yes, who controls his partner, he’ll find out quickly. Otherwise, you can only look at people.

anonym08158
1 year ago

Unfortunately, I don’t know how young the questioner is, but old enough to spy on her father. I wouldn’t have let my children clarify my affairs, I think the mother is grown-up enough to notice if her husband actually goes strange.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

That’s why talking about the VERDACHT and not just accusing us of being wild. Many things can be resolved through a conversation. Confirms the suspicion that a separation is probably justified & as a reasonable parent I would blame the child for it because it is not due.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Then you can talk to him and explain it. Just like you do when the child has uncertainties.

anonym08158
1 year ago

I think the child lives with a suspicion that it has gained by violating her father’s privacy. When this suspicion goes to the mother, it probably lives with the certainty of being guilty of separation, I think.

MrSlowhand129
1 year ago

It’s not clear that it’s like that! It’s just a suspicion.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

So the child may have to live with the mystery that the father does unjustly. sounds really childgerechet and not disturbing at all.

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

I would be cautious with the word choice but tell of the suspicion of the mother

Djejx
1 year ago
Reply to  MissGeschick93

No one adores opi

MissGeschick93
1 year ago
Reply to  Djejx

Okay little girl, your comment is just as much

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Makes sense

Djejx
1 year ago

How old are you three?

That you’re talking to youth?

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

If your auto correction in spelling errors writes about it in šŸ˜…

Djejx
1 year ago

“male” that is called auto correction

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Boy, I know you write it without H. You wrote it with H, then I stressed the whole thing with two H, because you like to make other people bad about it. I wanted to point you to your own mistakes. You don’t get the whole thing out of high intelligence. Yes, you speculator, I’m out. Just go through everything and think about you, too.

Djejx
1 year ago

Although it does not know who has given a degree (if available) but lack of goods you do not write a double h šŸ’€

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Where do you write that? šŸ˜‚ Education coughs, German course coughs, Pack yourself to your own nose

Djejx
1 year ago

Because you write it like that?

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Yes and the mangewaHre with an H šŸ¤” I just wanted to emphasize it once šŸ˜‰

Djejx
1 year ago

You know them, the magelwahre with 2*H

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Yes. šŸ˜‚

Djejx
1 year ago

There are also “Opis” which are not pensioners and are only 40 ..

Education is really magic

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

A pensioner who is supposed to buy parents and Chantal. Take care of your mommy and dad before you have to buy new ones

Djejx
1 year ago

Hello Chantal, I am denni

MissGeschick93
1 year ago

Chantal?

Djejx
1 year ago

I’m a boy you diabetics, buy you parents.

habakuk63
1 year ago

Keep out is the best you can do.

atoparty
1 year ago

you have nothing to look at the handy of your father. if he cheats on your mother or doesn’t bother you. Get out and take care of your school stuff.

Kugelflitz
1 year ago

Stay out, it’s not your business. You have nothing to sniff on your father’s phone.

Djejx
1 year ago
Reply to  Kugelflitz

But

Kugelflitz
1 year ago
Reply to  Djejx

No.

Djejx
1 year ago

You’ve done it before

Kugelflitz
1 year ago

No. End of discussion. You don’t have to interfere in foreign affairs.

Djejx
1 year ago

Yes.