Father cheats on mother, maybe what to do?
I've long suspected that my father is cheating on my mother. They argue a lot, too. I'm being completely open and honest. I even looked at his phone once, and there were some really strange apps on it that were probably dating platforms. I couldn't find out anything more about the apps because my father came downstairs and I had to put them away. Can someone help me? Should I tell my mother? Should I confront my father about this?
You’re the child and you have a suspicion. Yeah, it’s not okay for you to sniff your father’s cell phone…
I see this in a different way than the majority – you are trapped in a conflict of conscience with your feeling or your temper. You mean to keep a secret that – your mother would know – would break her heart. You can’t face your mother anymore because you know something she should know. Besides, the thought that she could be abandoned by your father will hurt you.
As a child, of course, you have the right to confront your father. I would have done it if my suspicion moments had hardened so much.
If your father’s cheating on your mother, he’s supposed to know that he flew. And he is to understand that not only his wife, but also his child, he goes behind, hurts and falls into a conflict of conscience.
As a family father, it’s not just his own business.
But don’t confront your mother. There have been suspicions that have not yet been proven. And even if the situation is clear, your father should make a table with your mother. That would really be his job.
very good answer
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Please, hold out. It’s not your construction site. You can quickly get between the fronts.
That’s stupid. Even a child can suffer severely from such things.
Yes, I see it, but it’s not up to a child to solve it.
I guess every child will take it differently.
he does nothing bad about it
Yes, the child shouldn’t get anything about it, but in some cases it does. And if he goes strange, he does something bad to his partner as well as to his children.
he does nothing wrong with the child and there are no secrets. it just doesn’t matter.
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You say the mother is grown-up enough to see if the man goes strange. Everyone can be deceived, that has neither to do with age nor with intelligence. I just wanted to say that.
Certainly, but I did not make this statement.
Experience and exchange with others. About manipulative people and co lets sure but read a lot if you are looking for it.
Where did you read that?
Yes it has something to do with your statement, many people are cheated and you don’t get behind.
I don’t think it’s necessary to control his partner in order to establish a change in nature, but it’s not a matter of question anymore.
Yes, who controls his partner, he’ll find out quickly. Otherwise, you can only look at people.
Unfortunately, I don’t know how young the questioner is, but old enough to spy on her father. I wouldn’t have let my children clarify my affairs, I think the mother is grown-up enough to notice if her husband actually goes strange.
That’s why talking about the VERDACHT and not just accusing us of being wild. Many things can be resolved through a conversation. Confirms the suspicion that a separation is probably justified & as a reasonable parent I would blame the child for it because it is not due.
Then you can talk to him and explain it. Just like you do when the child has uncertainties.
I think the child lives with a suspicion that it has gained by violating her father’s privacy. When this suspicion goes to the mother, it probably lives with the certainty of being guilty of separation, I think.
It’s not clear that it’s like that! It’s just a suspicion.
So the child may have to live with the mystery that the father does unjustly. sounds really childgerechet and not disturbing at all.
I would be cautious with the word choice but tell of the suspicion of the mother
No one adores opi
Okay little girl, your comment is just as much
Makes sense
How old are you three?
That you’re talking to youth?
If your auto correction in spelling errors writes about it in š
“male” that is called auto correction
Boy, I know you write it without H. You wrote it with H, then I stressed the whole thing with two H, because you like to make other people bad about it. I wanted to point you to your own mistakes. You don’t get the whole thing out of high intelligence. Yes, you speculator, I’m out. Just go through everything and think about you, too.
Although it does not know who has given a degree (if available) but lack of goods you do not write a double h š
Where do you write that? š Education coughs, German course coughs, Pack yourself to your own nose
Because you write it like that?
Yes and the mangewaHre with an H š¤” I just wanted to emphasize it once š
You know them, the magelwahre with 2*H
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There are also “Opis” which are not pensioners and are only 40 ..
Education is really magic
A pensioner who is supposed to buy parents and Chantal. Take care of your mommy and dad before you have to buy new ones
Hello Chantal, I am denni
Chantal?
I’m a boy you diabetics, buy you parents.
Keep out is the best you can do.
you have nothing to look at the handy of your father. if he cheats on your mother or doesn’t bother you. Get out and take care of your school stuff.
Stay out, it’s not your business. You have nothing to sniff on your father’s phone.
But
No.
You’ve done it before
No. End of discussion. You don’t have to interfere in foreign affairs.
Yes.