Vater arbeitslos und alkoholiker?
meine eltern sind immernoch zusammen aber nicht meht wirklich.
Mein Vater ist Arzt und hat seit ca villeicht einem Jahr ein Alkoholproblem. Da er mehrmals erwischt wurde wurde er gefeuert und hat jetzt den Dkt. Titel verlohren und ist arbeitslos.
Meine Mutter arbeitet, aber nur 60 Prozent. Da meine Mutter auch einr gute Stele hat ist es finanziell nicht schlimm, aber halt nicht mehr so „luxus“
Mein Vater ist jetzt ständig besoffen und benimmt sich richtig respektlos. Es behandelt meine Mum wie eig Gegenstand (sex und so) und allgemein einfach richtig andere typ..
Was kann ich machen?
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The Dr. title is relatively wurscht and very little worth (even the Dr. med.). You probably think it seems that he was deprived of the approval, which really inevitably leads to unemployment.
You can’t do much except: Take out, take dihc yourself into consideration and focus on your life. Your father likes if he’s sober, but if he’s drunk, keep a lot of distance. You can offer help in the form of search counselling centres or a pampering treatment.
The satisfaction of the addiction is the top priority for a addiction. Everything else is secondary. Although he has a bad sense in sober phases, he sits too strongly to make something. In case of emergency, you can try to induce a forced instruction or try to call the police immediately.
Your mother should support you when it comes to it and not buy or hire him any alcohol – just because she wants to help him.
Success! You can also find help in a self-help group for relatives. Since it is in Germany at least. 2 million dependent and at least 8 million to drink alcohol is almost a common disease. In the case of doctors, dependency often occurs – is training-related (shortly social pressure, lack of success).
Hello, Leni!
Nacoa offers a free anonymous chat every Tuesday at 6:00 for young people who have an alcoholic parent. Come on. https://nacoa.de/projects/consultation offers-round-the-thema-kinder-aus-suchtfamilie
You can also get on the page http://www.Al-Anon.de to browse.
First of all, it’s one thing of your mother.
You can say something like
Tell your mother not to get married for your sake. “for the children” is such a typical reason why mothers do this.
Otherwise, just leave when it gets too bad. Maybe over the youth office if you’re underage.
What you can’t do is make your father dry. Looks stronger than love. Even stronger than love for his daughter. I’m sorry. It’s part of the disease. Sorry 😕
(speak to him that you find all this bad. But do it for you because it’s good to express something like that. Not to do something with him. That won’t work)
You can’t help an alcoholic as long as he doesn’t recognize that he needs help.
The only thing you can do is help your mother.
Hello, Leni!
This doesn’t sound so good.Speak to your mother trying to instruct your father in a clinic to get rid of the alcohol problem. Try to speak carefully with him.
Are you underage? Then not so much, except to say your father’s opinion and to address your mother directly to it and ask why she doesn’t separate and pull her out. If she doesn’t, you can only wait until you can stand on your own legs and pull them out.
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