Unhappy with my life?

Hello, 🙂

I hope someone can give me some advice. I'm 21 and I'm extremely unhappy with my life at the moment. I feel like the older I get, the fewer friends I have (actually, I don't have any at the moment) and I find it difficult to make friends. I've never had a large group of friends… a few issues are bothering me at the moment, and not just the friend thing… I feel like I'm somehow lagging behind in life. I made a completely fresh start when I was 20 and started an apprenticeship as an office clerk… which I actually enjoy. However, I don't feel comfortable about just starting an apprenticeship now. I'm also only now getting my driver's license – I couldn't afford it before. Unfortunately I have absolutely no self-confidence and I don't like myself – firstly because I have scars from an operation which are unfortunately very unsightly…. I feel unattractive even though I actually have a normal figure – but I somehow don't feel wanted by men, I'm somehow inconspicuous – nobody wants me anyway and if they do they're not serious about me anyway – that's why I've never been in a relationship……. Since you don't exactly earn a lot during your apprenticeship I also live with my parents… which is also uncomfortable for me. I would be great if you could tell me what you think about this.

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Totenprinz
11 months ago

Hey, I'm sorry to hear you feel so dissatisfied 😔😔😔

But you know what? You are only 21, life is not over yet 🥰

It's totally okay that you're just doing your training and driving the license 😎💪

Everyone has their own pace and scars are not a shame, they make you unique and tell your story.

You're much more than your scars or your fears.

Doris0007
11 months ago

Many people are dissatisfied with their lives because we were originally made for a paradise, but now everything else is there.

LoveIIee
11 months ago

hii I understand how you feel girlyy I'm 19 and don't have many friends either. In my past, I was very impressed by the men's world and didn't feel confident. You should not be influenced by types, the right one will come at an unpredictable time
I'm still proud that you started your training and you like it <3 That you do your driving license is mega. Every person now goes his own professional path. I've been looking for training for 1 year and I haven't found anything. You should be glad you found something you like :/

You're 21. 21. Your life is just beginning