Considering deregistration: Frustration with authorities and the employment system?

Hello there. 👋🏻

Yesterday I went to the employment agency, even though it was a 20-minute drive to get there. So you ca n't say I'm not interested. 🤣The day before, I also went to the social welfare office to get some more information. I received a job offer nationwide, offering a training program to become a security specialist (which requires a competency exam, however). I had the impression that the staff didn't really take my concerns seriously. Right at the beginning of the conversation, one staff member started talking about my alleged lack of entitlement to unemployment benefits, even though the topic of the appointment was something else . I had to clarify my concerns first, and they said strange things like, "Let's see how we can get you straightened out" or "You're not registered with us as a job seeker. I'm registering you now. We'll find the right path for you." And much more. It seemed as if they weren't taking me seriously (based on the sentences and tone of voice) and would rather decide for me than let me decide what I wanted to do (I have a dream job and clear plans for the future). After the interview, I spoke to the recruiter on the phone, who indirectly told me the same thing and tried to dissuade me. For example, she told me about someone who had passed the competency exam and is now looking for work, implying that I would end up the same way, or that the failure rate is high. It seemed as if she was questioning their credibility. I have all the letters digitally because I don't have a printer at home, but aren't these letters explicitly intended for the office? We have another interview on Monday, and I'm curious to see what she'll say when she reads through the letters (she needs a permanent letter of employment).

I'm considering deregistering, because I'll soon be starting a mini-job as a breakfast lady for two days a week at €12.50 an hour (nothing's set yet, I'm just checking things out). I've got several offers on Indeed (not yet in the home office sector or as a freelancer in the arts, as I'd like, but at least positions nearby), which means I won't need any annoying consultations or a lot of advice. The security specialist opportunity sounds extremely interesting to me, and since I'm open to new things, willing to do volunteer work, and have always wanted to do good things, I thought I'd be a good candidate. Instead, I'm being demotivated and treated rudely.

Something's wrong with these kinds of offices! I find it outrageous and will politely speak up if such incredibly strange statements occur again.

By the way, I'll be coming of age in August and was recently terminated from my apprenticeship (during my probationary period—without any reason), so I'm not a parasite who needs money from the government. I don't understand these recurring statements from employees.

I even considered driving to Munich every day if there really weren't many jobs there, as she falsely claimed.