Trinken mit 14?

Hey ich wollte mal fragen ob es normal ist schon 14 immer zum Alkohol zu greifen wenn man Probleme hat, denn meine Freundin tut das oft. Ich habe schon mal versucht die Probleme mit ihr zu bereden, doch sie nimmt lieber den Alkohol..

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Alena von Mindzone
6 months ago

Hello

it’s nice that you’re looking to care about your girlfriend and support her.

Alcohol is additionally harmful with 14 years since the brain and the body are still in growth. Early consumption and, above all, consumption in order to agitate problems can also increase the risk of addiction. I would therefore advise her to speak with a doctor or a therapist at an early stage to learn how to deal with problems differently.

Try to talk to your girlfriend again. Be careful, too. If your consumer behavior increases, please seek support with a reference person or professional contact point. For example, you can go to a drug consultancy office at any time.

Here are some talk tips:

It is important that you speak out your concerns and concerns openly.

Make the person realize you’re worried and you’re on her. Try to explain why you’re worried.

  • Consider how you stand on the subject yourself and represent your opinion confidently and consistently
  • Consider what you want to address in a moment before the conversation
  • Talk to your concerns in a quiet minute and not between door and fishing
  • Explain why you’re worried. Openly declare how important your friendship/relation is to you and that it is important to you as a human being
  • Stay objective and friendly. Tell the person you’re talking about. Example: “We have done something more often together. I think it’s a pity that you’ve become so passive now and you’re completely retreating. ‘
  • If you are insecure yourself, get advice and support with someone you trust or contact a consultancy office

Note: If she doesn’t want to change her behavior, and you realize that the contact doesn’t do you well, you’ll have consequences for you. It’s very nice that you want to help her, but you’re not responsible for her.

You can send me a message via a friendship request. I work as a social educator at the Mindzone project (acceptance-oriented drug work) and am on the go as a digital street worker online.

Best regards,

Alena from the DigiStreet team

adianthum
6 months ago

What’s going to happen to you, you feel like “normal”.

In case of problems to attack alcohol, NO age is normal.

This is socially viable in our culture, is due to the poor water quality of the pre-industrial period, where there was little access to clean water in cities.

Beer and wine were more “safe” than water in which all waste cumulates and germs of all kinds offered a good breeding ground. Even toddlers already got beer to drink.

This says so much about our degenerated social behaviour from 😉

And so the children learn from parents how to be “socially capable” in certain situations.

Waldmensch70
6 months ago

Hey I wanted to ask if it’s normal for 14 to always grab alcohol when you have problems

No.

This is not “normal” as an adult.

Ille1811
6 months ago

Hello!

Above all, you should think about yourself and find another friend. Why? Because it not only damages itself with it, but also genetic changes can occur during puberty by alcohol, the cause of malformations and/or disabilities in children who later get it.

As you say, I think she’s already dependent.

Akka2323
6 months ago

It’s gonna end bad.

LeckermaulVK
6 months ago

Of course not. However, parents should get this. Talk to a good teacher.

LeckermaulVK
6 months ago

Teacher I wrote, not parents.

LeckermaulVK
6 months ago

Then turn on the youth office directly!

Rapunzel324
6 months ago

Surely not! You don’t solve problems with alcohol, no matter what age.

Continuous alcohol consumption mainly damages the liver, with folg diseases, such as fatty livers, liver cirrhosis. Your girlfriend should consult the pediatrician to control liver levels > Gammagt.+ Transaminases to diagnose whether the liver is already damaged.

What do your parents say?

Rapunzel324
6 months ago

Something like that is normal at no age! When both parents drink, there is always a risk that children become alcoholic. The parents live in it and the children know nothing else because of it.

Lubitz12321
6 months ago

Hey I wanted to ask if it’s normal for 14 to always grab alcohol

No, it’s only normal in Germany.

Lubitz12321
6 months ago

I don’t know.

HUKUMA174
6 months ago

No, and that the alcohol is below 16 or 18 years of access is all the more worrying.

DerCactus
6 months ago

It’s not normal at any age.

Luca747
6 months ago

You can’t do it!! That says the law

YunaBich333
6 months ago

To the clinic with her

87265252
6 months ago

No!

turalo
6 months ago

The question arises immediately: Where are the parents?

turalo
6 months ago

Then you should immediately inform the Youth Office