My son wants to separate from his wife because she loves her horse more and has less and less time for the children (8 and 3 years old), the household (own house) and for joint family activities.
Which path should he take so that he makes as few mistakes as possible.
The children are everywhere, he is the sole breadwinner, and desperate.
Is it possible that he will have the children?
Thanks
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It is not said that the mother always gets custody. I came to my grandpa as a kid. Unfortunately, there are no meaningful documents from this time and it was only very superficial, so I do not know the backgrounds. Unfortunately, there is no one who can really say something about it today.
Finally, your son should talk to his wife again because of the horse and that the family suffers directly and openly ——> unless the whole thing is already so bad, tightened and unintentionally that nothing goes and a new beginning seems unlikely. Otherwise, a good lawyer is helpful.
Thanks for the answer, only my son wanted to stay through until the children are great, but from his point of view they provoked a separation.
And the children will never leave them because they have him in their hands and they don’t have to go to work.
I’m a grandma, I’m afraid I’m gonna have to stay out, because otherwise she’s gonna take the kids out of here just because she can.
Then he should “short” the money for the horse….
Since both children are over 3 years old, he only has to pay a break in the separation year if he is still capable of benefiting in addition to child support.
In addition, it would only be due, if it were sick and unable to work. It’s not that easy to work anymore. And at the latest after the divorce, she’ll probably not be able to afford her horse anymore – if she doesn’t deserve enough.
Is she currently working?
Was the house bought together by both?
Who’s in the land register, are there debts?
Who will stay in the house?
Your son should take a lawyer, discuss everything with him in advance, and then pass through the separation.
It won’t be easy for the children, neither for him, but the two suffer from the tensions, feel it.
Thanks for the detailed answer and compassion.
I think the next step will be a lawyer appointment and the documentation.
Just do it, then you just see more clearly. All good and great strength. I’ve grown up with this.
he has to find a lawyer and submit the divorce. whether he gets the kids will show up. if the km remains in the apartment and gets the usual environment and the social environment, she has good cards to get the children if she wants it.
aside, it is not only her task to do the children and the budget. he can move the same way.
with which he allows the whole lifestyle.
While a child is in kindergarten and the other child at school is at the stable.
When the kids are there, she starts cooking while the child has to do his homework alone.
The younger child is parked in front of the TV.
My son comes home, leads the children to sports or swimming, etc.
then he often does the laundry, the kitchen, etc., because
Unfortunately, Mrs is too exhausted.
In good German, my son, unfortunately, has “no ass” in her pants, because she has even become a care horse.
She can’t promise to be home on time when a child comes from school, she’ll just try.
a horse is now working and that is more strenuous than how papi can’t stand in the office all day. So what’s his problem?
I’d advise him to talk to his wife and be open…
First of all, look for a good family lawyer (intentionally female, who come to court better on their own experience). However, he should consider this again well and also consider family therapy. If this is not fruitful and he remains in his opinion, then he himself must find a way with his wife regarding the separation year. This can also be done in your own home(also own experience). And-important – document all conversations, deals, incidents and activities concerning family. Say, write. Something counts in court.
Thank you, the documentation is a good and sensual thing.
Thank you.
Then one advice: just the activities and efforts for and with the children weigh hard at/in court. Emotionally I think there would be shared custody, only where the children then stay – that is open. And today no longer automatically said to the mother-like above.