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Hey,
I'm kind of uncool, and I've always been a bit of an outsider. But I don't really know why that might be…
Here’s some general information about me:
- I'm a girl
- I'm 15 years old
- I am only 1.55 tall
- I'm pretty thin (unintentionally)
- I don't have such "feminine curves" either
- My voice is kind of stupid, so I sometimes speak a bit unclearly because of my braces
- I hardly wear make-up, only mascara and lip gloss
- I'm not so good with hairstyles, I usually just wear a ponytail
- And I somehow never have the trendy clothes, just boring things
Do you have any idea why I'm so unpopular? And what can I do about it?
Thanks for all the answers, feel free to ask if you need more information 🙂
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Stay like you. A boy/man will come sooner or later and find you. it is not cool with the mainstream running ONLY because it is cool.
Stay like you and look around.
LG de Storch
I cannot imagine that the answer to your question is to be found in the information above.
It has to be how you give yourself. Can it be that you just turned a little into you and it’s hard for you to join others?
You should join those who fit well with you. The nice, inconspicuous ones that are similar to you and do not try to do the “cools”. Close a couple of friendships with those who also stand a little off.
You’re like you. Don’t change anything to please others better, but turn to those you’ve already been feeling. They’re just too shy to go to you.
You can’t like other people if you don’t like yourself! You must be able to look in the mirror and say,” yes I am and I like myself”: Only when you get a certain degree of self-confidence, you’ll get over for others. But you should take care of yourself.
Good luck and LG
I don’t see what makes you uncool.
Look for people of your kind who have a little something in their head and who aren’t completely twisted. You must have any hobbies; Do it with other people, maybe even in the club.
Or do something new: For example, you could go to the volunteer fire department. They are usually good at it, you learn something for your life and by the way you make yourself very useful. Or to the Red Cross or the Water Guard… all organizations that can need young volunteers.
Stay as you are and someone who appreciates you as you are, that counts more than in people arriving “cool” that are not worth it.
You described above exclusively externalities.
But WHERE are you?
What are your passions, talents, hobbies?
What do you think about the world?
And how are you talking about it?
How are you even talking?
How do you act against your fellow human beings?
Have you ever thought about it?
Just start spreading grass, then you’ll get cooler.