Tips for pain during sex?

Hey, I have a question, of course a gynecologist could answer it better😅

Still, I'd like to ask: Do you have any tips? When I insert my penis into my vagina, it hurts unbelievably. So much that I have to cry.

DOES AN IBU HELP?

LG

AND THANKS IN ADVANCE

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Oowzeed
2 years ago

The body has a reason why it reacts with pain. He tells you something’s wrong.

An IBU is useful if you know the reason and cannot change something, but NIE if the reason is unknown.

Sex should not cause pain. The basic idea is that it prepares both pleasures.

I have three possible reasons:

  • 1. You are not damp enough, the pain is then more burning, caused by friction. There are two reasons for this: He didn’t do his job well enough at the foreplay, then he has to learn to do it so that it excites you enough that you are wet enough. Or you don’t produce enough vaginal fluid. This is very rare and a case for the female doctor to clarify the cause. Here, for example, sliding gel can provide a remedy
  • Two. He penetrates too fast and is anatomically rather large. The first intrusion in sex should hardly create resistance from the man. If it slowly penetrates and it is moist enough, then the vaginal arch almost automatically expands. By excitement, blood circulation is increased and everything becomes supple. If he does this too fast, the muscles can’t follow it and may be cramped. The pain is then rather a pressure pain and a dull. (Also in combination with 1. possible)
  • 3. You are not relaxed and cramped: You may expect it to be unpleasant or afraid, then you almost automatically cramp and it will be painful. Here is the solution to leave time until you realize that you are really relaxed and easy. It can also be useful to separate the act into two parts. He can first bring you to the climax with his hand and mouth and then penetrate directly after your orgasm. For women, this is usually still enjoyable and may bring you to the second orgasm and it has the advantage that you are pretty sure relaxed and well moist.

I wish you all the best and fun, this is the meaning of the thing.

Rickyff
2 years ago

Ibu does not help safe. Please go to the doctor, but at the same time you should note the following: sufficient prelude (which you are also in mood and receptive), so do not put enough gliding gel on dry start, and if it is very big and you vll very tight, then start slowly and find the appropriate position

Kugelflitz
2 years ago
Reply to  Rickyff

enough sliding gel

If you do not normally need it.

Rickyff
2 years ago
Reply to  Kugelflitz

Not all women are always completely damp, even if they are excited, or do you think glider was only invented for analsex?

Kugelflitz
2 years ago

That’s why I write that you shouldn’t need it in NORMALFALL. Most healthy women get damp enough.

golde2002
2 years ago

Get away from the IBU.

Your body doesn’t send the pain signal for no reason.

From to the female doctor – clarify cause – find.

Kugelflitz
2 years ago

So much that you have to cry

It shouldn’t be the case, I’m not hurting anything. Let it go.

TorDerSchatten
2 years ago

No. Please go to the doctor.