Tanzstunde mut Junge?
Heyy ihr lieben
Ich hab mal eine Frafe also mich hat eigentlich ein ganz süßer Junge gefragt ob ich mit ihm tanzen will ( ich hab Ja gesagt bin aber nicht in ihn verliebt). Und das Ding ist jetzt ich bin ULTRA schüchtern und kann keine Gespräche führen und mich normal aufführen.. wisst ihr wie ich das verhindern kann damit es nicht so unangenehm ist ?
Danke für jede Antwort<3
Just remember that he is a human being and makes mistakes. Try to relax (I know, easier said than done) and let yourself in.
and the most important thing: often laugh, also about yourself. This, in my experience, looses the mood enormously. Had to dance with a boy who obviously stood on me… He was so shy, that was really unpleasant. But with time… and when you laugh about jokes and yourself, that’s all right. I wasn’t on him either, he made it easier again
You don’t have to be in love to dance with someone. Although this sometimes results.
Maybe you tell him something like, “I’m a little shy. Don’t blame me if I don’t know what to say at times.”
You don’t have to be in love to spend a nice day together. It’s non-binding and can make you both fun if you haven’t been cramped since. Remember, he’s as insecure as you are. For a conversation, s is always good to ask questions that are open so start with W. How… Where… why… why…
You can’t answer it with yes or no 🙂
Dance is one thing, love another.
Oh, that’s how many people are! When you agreed to him, you weren’t shy, were you? So, I think you’re just shy in certain situations.
Then it can be that the boy is shy too. There are many times.
Shyness – I think – always has something to do with fear. Then there are thoughts in the game, like “hopefully I say nothing wrong” or… You can practice with them before. Training a little. Imagine a big mirror, look at it and practice situations where he says where you answer or vice versa. Just as long as you get easier. This means that “live” can work very well.