What is the difference between the life instinct and the self-preservation instinct?

Hello, I'm writing my seminar paper on the urge to survive and what happens when it collides with moral rules, and what moral dilemmas arise from it. So I came across Freud's psychoanalysis and wanted to know what the difference is between the life instinct and the self-preservation instinct. Thanks in advance.

Why don't people like people who play the victim role?

People who are in the victim role usually do so unconsciously. What is so toxic about people who play the victim role? I've noticed that even therapists are very reluctant to deal with such people. The main problem is that we always blame others. But what if the other person *actually* is to blame? Question:…