What separates successful people from losers? Is it childhood, genetics, luck? Or is it all about mindset, and mindset is the only thing you need for success? But where does a good mindset come from, and why do many people have a bad mindset? Why do I tend to have a fatalistic, hopeless mindset? Why…
When I think that as an autistic person I may never achieve much success in life because of my autism and because I am so passionless and apathetic. I haven't achieved anything and I'm 25 now. How am I ever supposed to realistically achieve anything, like financial stability, if nothing interests me, if I just…
There's just nothing there. Everything seems somehow dull, boring, pointless, etc. Why am I like this? Others don't seem to. But I'm so empty, so unmotivated. That's also the reason why I've never worked before, because I simply didn't have the motivation or energy. Is that an excuse? Possibly, but how are you supposed to…
I don't have any specific career interests. Besides, it seems that almost all apprenticeships are poorly paid. And they hardly seem worth it when you earn barely more than minimum wage. What am I doing? Am I simply destined to be a loser because I have no special interests or amazing skills? What's wrong with…
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Just describe a loser. What characteristics should someone have for you to consider them a loser?
Well, at first I thought about making a career, but honestly I don't want to, I would only do that because that's what society expects. I think I will do a simple job as a gardener, landscaper, or something similar in nature. Maybe in agriculture. It doesn't pay well, but I think that would be…
Many students at my university drive loser cars that make you laugh, like an ancient Opel Corsa/VW Polo/Twingo. They want to come across as losers because you can lease cheaply, like a brand-new Audi A3 for €200, which is easy when you can also afford a €3,000 junk car. I'm an 18-year-old university student and…
Hi, my question is, if you are abnormally disrespectful towards your family and you think that you are already an adult, that you are practically too badly behaved, will the military teach you or educate you respect and tolerance? My brother is old enough to join the military, but he behaves so disrespectfully towards his…
I'm not feeling well, mentally… To sum it up: I feel like a total failure. As a daughter, as a sister, as a friend. I have no friends. And a little more, but I don't want to name it here. What exactly is this about? It's about an acquaintance who's a very good friend of…