Do you know that you quit your job to get a new job, or enrolled in a new course of study, etc. The decision to sign a new contract was already a bit of a headache. You were really looking forward to a new challenge… Suddenly, everything feels so uncertain. Sleepless nights, stomach aches, pressure…
"Believing is not knowing"
Hello everyone. I've been looking for a new apartment for over half a year. I've now been offered a two-room apartment (500 meters from my current apartment). Everything's pretty good. Modern, in a proper city neighborhood, and quiet. But suddenly doubts arise as to whether she is the right one. She's one floor above where…
Hello, I want to quit playing the horn. It's fun sometimes. I've made lots of new friends. I have a really nice teacher who's like a friend, and I play in an orchestra, but I can't motivate myself to learn anymore, which is why I'm not making any progress. Besides, I'm going to boarding school…
Hello everyone, I am currently a senior in high school and will have completed my Abitur in about a year. After that, the big question is, of course, which career I want to pursue. After extensive and reflective consideration, I have now decided that I want to study (high school teaching or medicine). My first…
Do you regret a decision you made recently or do you have doubts that it was the right one? If so, tell me what it was.
A few really strange things have been happening lately, and now I'm really starting to doubt that maybe I'm just living in a fake world and everyone around me is just an actor. I've looked it up… online it says I have Truman Syndrome… that I'm paranoid. But what if the producers want me to…
I started an apprenticeship as a car mechanic on September 2nd. Before that, I finished a business school, but then I couldn't find an apprenticeship, so I worked part-time for a colleague in retail. I found the apprenticeship through my brother. I liked it when I was just doing a trial, and the first two…
Hello everyone, this time a more existential question. I am 18 and this year I started studying medicine at a university far from my hometown, which is why I moved away. Since then, I've had an extremely difficult time and it just doesn't get better, no matter how hard I persevere, no matter how much…
I have a question for all mothers and fathers: do you regret having children? Even if you love them and would do anything for them. I want a child, but sometimes I just don't. We can't have children naturally, which is why it will be a conscious decision for us. I'm just scared that it…
I finished a novel manuscript about ten years ago (I was about 16 years old). It was a fantasy story that was about 110,000 words long. I was never satisfied with it afterward, so I didn't do anything else with it. I remember a few years later, I wanted to do a kind of "remaster"…
Good day dear people, I have a big problem staying motivated, whether it's dieting, regular exercise or willingness to learn at work. There are classic moments when I lie in bed in the evening or sit in front of the PC and think to myself that things are only going to get better from now…