Hello everyone, I have a problem with a colleague that is really bothering me. Background: Our team consists of 3 people Colleague A told me that colleague B told colleague C nonsense about me when I wasn't there (nothing dramatic, but still untrue). Colleague A and I get along really well, even privately, and I…
I'm currently experiencing bullying at work. On Tuesday, the situation escalated to the point where I had to go home because I was so mentally exhausted. I then called in sick for the rest of the week. There's a colleague there who regularly harasses me and is very aggressive. Things escalated on Tuesday, and a…
I (male) have noticed for some time now that I have a very possessive attitude towards people. These are mostly female. I'm active in a few groups on Discord. These are friend groups, usually with 4-6 people. There's always a girl (15-19 years old) in these groups. At first, everything's fine; we're texting normally and…
Hello everyone 🙂 For me, a partner with children who also maintains regular contact with the father is completely new territory. My emotions are running wild, and I ask you not to be too harsh. I need neutral opinions, even though I actually believe I'm right… But first things first: My partner's ex (they were…
If you feel you have upset someone, you should speak openly to the person and ask them why. This way, conflicts can be resolved quickly before bad feelings build up. Why don't more people talk to each other so openly? And how likely is this to generate negative reactions?
Why do I worry so much when there was a small conflict between me and someone I really like Thoughts like everything is fine is the person angry with me Is everything good between us I definitely want to clarify Where does this come from
I've been here for almost six months now. I've had several predecessors. The job is great, and the salary couldn't be better. If it weren't for the team… I don't feel comfortable in a team at all. I'm normally a very open person who enjoys small talk with colleagues. But now I just sit there…
Hello, I still love my childhood sweetheart. Here's why: I'm a very forgetful person, especially when stressed. It's like a curse. I met Verena on the Munich S-Bahn. We had a nice chat. I told her I still loved her and was ready to forget everything and start a new chapter. The next day, she…
Hello everyone, What do you call people who constantly annoy you, talk badly about you, or constantly make you feel insecure? I have two colleagues who can constantly annoy you, unsettle you, or immediately complain when something doesn't go the way they want. Or they blame you for everything, even though I wasn't even responsible…
What effects do absent fathers have on boys and later adult men? Not absent in the sense of divorced parents or the father running away. Rather, it's when the father was theoretically there, but worked a lot and was therefore rarely home. Maybe even absent for a few weeks, which is why. And he shows…
Hello everyone, I have a colleague who confessed his love to me about two months ago. 'He fell in love with me immediately, from the first moment he saw me.' He is married and has two children. When he told me this, the situation overwhelmed me (we had previously been on good terms). I told…
In films and TV shows, it's always said or portrayed that after taking revenge—for example, if you get hit and then hit the person back after a while—you really don't feel any better than before. I wanted to know from experienced people whether you feel better in some ways, or really no different/even worse in…